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We appreciate those stars who did not support Chris Brown. Although media terms a beating as "domestic violence, no woman claims to be a victim of domestic violence. What she says is,
"He beat me up."
Send a message and do not support the career of thug wannabe Chris Brown.
We will not purchase anything from Brown, Jay-Z, or Sean Combs, (for providing Chris Brown shelter at his Miami estate). Our vote against perpetuating domestic violence is through with holding our dollars. Boycotting their music is our sweet song.
"Falsehood flies and the truth comes limping after; so that when men come to be undeceived it is too late: the jest is over and the tale has had its effect."
Jonathan Swift
November 9th, 1710
The bastard child of family court is perjury.
However, perjury is seldom prosecuted because prosecution tends to end litigation. Judges are accommodating that way, reasoning it's better to rule in a way that promotes legal services, not end them.
Perjury allows judges to expand the industry, such as orders for Supervised visitation, evaluations and other legal services.
Children are the cog that turn the judicial wheel of fortune for attorneys and other comers in the divorce and custody industry.
However the main reason to remember why "No Fault" divorce doesn't work is because most judges are former prosecutors and as former prosecutors, trained to look for and then place, blame.
Also, with our tongue planted firmly in our cheek, FamilyLawCourts.com wants to congratulate ex felon and convicted rapist, Pete Clark, of www.Livebeatdads.us - for *finally* dropping off Meagan's list. Clark no longer has to register his whereabouts.
And we seriously hope he's not dating.
At last attorneys and others can educate others about good and bad judges, anonymously or otherwise. Click to USAJudges.com to create a report.
Some judges are even willing to learn about parental alienation. But most subject the person reporting the brainwashing parent, to legal abuse. It's called shooting the messenger and it's fairly routine. Which is why judges must be educated.
California; Family Code Section 7507, authorizes the County Board of Supervisors the ability to act. Specifically, Section 7507 provides by statute, the ability to initiate a custody action failing other remedies.
Petition the Board to act. When they refuse, as they initially will, return until they either act, or are voted out, for not making children a priority.
California Penal Code Section 278 addresses issues of custody. If a police officer refuses to take a report, go Up the chain of command until one does. End selective law enforcement.
This site is dedicated to LaVerne Russell, researcher extraordinaire; and children alive, but physically and emotionally injured as a result of extreme judicial bias.
Kids are dying at the hands of parents or state agencies promising to care for them.
In 2001 We first recommended Voting Out elected officials who consistently refused to act in the best interests of children. Our calls for ouster were the result of repeated calls for action, being routinely ignored. We began to wonder, what do these people do for a living. Our first call for resignation was to Rep. Cunningham.
Calls went unanswered. Rep. Cunningham finally resigned after pleading guilty to accepting bribes. We attending sentencing and witnessed him ask to be allowed to go home to visit his mother one more time. Why she wasn't important enough to visit prior to sentencing wasn't mentioned. However it seems Cunningham didn't miss any opportunity to make himself look good. Although Cunningham said he asked his family to stay away. We heard they were so disgusted with his behavior wild horses could have dragged them there.
However, elected officials continue their lock-step refusal to address Routine matters affecting the people they profess to serve, demonstrate indifference in the extreme.
Although Familylawcourts.com has been examining Family Court since 2001, we didn't stumbled on the solution to family court related murders until 2009.
Technology now equips victims of attacks, as well as those wrongly accused, with an independent source to verify their claims. Victim Notification GPS provides victims with early warning notice, so the potential victim can vacate the area and save their own life.
San Diego
Melvin Carter beat up his girlfriend, Christina Jones, mother of their two kids. He was arrested. (Carter had been on probation after an earlier conviction for beating Jones in 2008.)
In response to San Diego Judge DeAnn Salcido's lawsuit against Judge Peter Deddeh, Joyce Murphy wrote:
"I would like to hear responses from Judges Deddeh and Danielson who handled my criminal case (SCD178322)of "kidnapping" which was referred to them by the Salcido courtroom.
Comments from Judge Hendrix who took over the family court case after Salcido would be appreciated. How much influence between the DA's office and Salcido occurred? It was my impression that after refusing to listen to my concerns regarding the abusive tendencies of Bud Parson, Deann Salcido decided I was lying (reminiscent of Judge Lemkau) and had influenced the criminal court judges and the subsequent family law court to treat me as a delusional and contentious individual.
Had I been treated as she now proposes criminals be treated, I would have been sentenced to prison rather than probation. That would have left me completely without contact with my child.
It still took six years of continued family court litigation and the conviction of my now ex-husband to finally obtain custody of my child.
I was able to fight for my child only because I was still on probation and not sitting in a prison cell. How much abuse did we suffer because of Salcido's misjudgment?
More than I could ever forget.
What we are now faced with is an election with a candidate who is willing to take advantage of the personal suffering of the King and Dubois families to appear tough on abusers.
If it were up to me Judge DeAnn Salcido and the DAs involved in my criminal case, (SCD178322) Teresa Santana, and now judge, Garry Haehnle, would be placed on administrative leave pending a full investigation by the Department of Justice.
I believe the record - particularly my criminal case, establishes a breakdown in the efficient and proper administration of justice. One that placed the life, health, and safety of an innocent child at risk to a sexual predator.
Given the continued financial problems in the court system, and the need to protect innocent children from these kinds of risks, some investigation into why and how this could have happened should be immediately initiated by some disinterested, impartial investigative or fact finding agency and immediate action taken to assure that the travesty of what occurred to my daughter does not happen to anyone else's child.
Joyce A. Murphy
UCSD - Biology
Pacific Hall 3119
9500 Gilman Dr.
La Jolla, CA 92093-0357
For a more inside baseball look at judges - family court judges and others, who refuse to protect the public, see Not A Hallmark View of Mother's Day.
Familylawcourts.com recommends a federal panel. One outside San Diego, and the too cozy confines well documented in this area and arena.
Channel 10 detailed Joyce Murphy's family court experience.
Also, and unlike John Gardner, not all pedophiles are unmarried. What happens to divorcing pedophiles in San Diego? In Judge DeAnn Salcido's court room, they win custody. Mother Joyce Murphy was charged with kidnapping.
While the Dr. Phil show airing April 14, 2010, did much to highlight the problems surrounding judges who refuse to grant restraining orders, the solution,
GPS with Victim Notification
was not featured on the program.
For details about GPS with Victim Notification, a tool that provides the intended victims with enough notice to afford them a life-saving head start, and the power to begin saving their own lives from those intending harm, either click the video;
Meanwhile, While Plains Mayor Adam Bradley is now facing additional charges for beating up his wife.
However, much of the state's budget is spent on addressing murders *after* the fact. Not one thin dime goes to life-saving prevention. Women want to be able to protect themselves with a GPA victim notification component, now. More on that here.
More good news - it also works great for men accused of false allegations. See interviews at the bottom of the page, here.
Because...
Welcome to Family Court.
No one under eleven believes it's working.
How many ways can a case go south? Failure of the police, the DA, the courts, and the Parole Board resulted in; two more deaths.
The State of Florida says Ex-Felons watching your kids is okay by them.
Can you picture your child under the care of *any* of these people? Is this a second chance, or play-book for future harm?
Is Cheryl Uzamere crazy?
That seems an easy guess after reading her website.
However, Uzamere most recently demonstrated lunacy by repeatedly threatening New York Supreme Court Justice Jeffrey Sunshine.
Part of the reason family court doesn't work in California has to do with the Judicial Council's partnership with the AOC. For details on that, including how the AOC, by using the same old people, continues rendering family court a resounding, litigation prone, failure. The latest example is the Elkins Task Force.
GPS monitoring with victim notification. alerts. However, not all GPS devices are created equal. Check with GPSmonitoring.com to determine which provider featuring Victim Notification is best suited for family court needs in your area.
The bad news?
Legislators around the state report some non-profits claiming to "address" domestic violence are against GPS monitoring. The good news? Legislators understand those non-profits are fearful funding will be used more effectively with GPS monitoring than their programs claiming to "address" domestic violence.
The best news?
Only a few non-profits have reacted poorly. The rest understand GPS with Victim Notification is a power tool for the courts to break the cycle of domestic violence.
Kentucky's deadly trifecta of incompetence. The Courts, the police, and the Press.
In not a single televised or printed issue of the murder of little Cole Frazier, by his father, Timothy, (who had kicked out a window in a police unit after his DUI arrest), did media identify the judge who signed the Protective Order on behalf of Timothy. Journalism 101- identify all parties involved. Especially in a murder of a toddler
On July 31, 2009, we spoke to Lt. Atkins, of Lawrenceburg Police Department. Lt. Atkins informed us he couldn't read the name of the judge who signed the Emergency Protective Order. The police said they didn't have any paperwork on hand and by the way, no case number, either. Lt. Atkins attitude was remarkably cavalier. We called Nelson County Court and were informed by Stacy, the judge who signed the EPO was Judge John David "Jack" Seay.
By way of background, prior to the murder of Cole, Timothy had agreed to supervised visitation. However, he filed an "Emergency Protective Order" and Lawrenceburg Police Lt. Atkins and Officer Doty, took the child from Candice Dempsey and delivered him to his father, and his death.
Media, in not identifying Judge John David "Jack" Seay, took an active role in depriving voters the right to know judicial ruling history.
This is a continuing problem. Voters must demand immunity for social workers be removed.
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Our entire system of justice depends on people telling the truth. In family court, perjury is often rewarded. Judges never refer a case to the DA for a perjury prosecution. So he who lies first, best, often wins. Why do we have family court?
Consider Joyce Murphy's six years of hell, which clearly demonstrates family courts only work for the so-called "professionals." As it turns out, the criminal courts finally worked, but only after two little girls did the job of the police for them.
Pedophile Bud Parson Sentenced
But after six years of family court hell, Judge Kearney still didn't want to hear from Joyce Murphy, not even for two minutes, to read a victims impact statement.
July 21, 2009
Lackluster San Diego DA Kelly Mok, from the, (gotta love it), "Family Protection Unit" delivered a victory of sorts for pedophiles everywhere today by not strenuously advocating for Joyce Murphy to speak. As rote prosecutions go, Mok's got it down. Matching Mok's tone was the equally lackluster, Hon. Robert J. Kearney who also phoned it in with a mild rebuked before sentencing Parson to six Concurrent years in an agreed upon deal.
Meaning the judge agreed.
But then, we were not surprised. Absent Judge Lisa Foster, no court, police department or therapist has ever been interested in anything Joyce has had to say, which is why the pedophile continued with impunity for roughly five years.
So for any future prosecutions on behalf of the Family Protection Unit, we encourage Mok to bring her "A" game. Should she have one.
Lastly...our attempt to learn the identity of Mok's supervisor was met with no holds barred...stalling by a paralegal named Stephanie, who did everything possible to cause us to want to hang up.
Still we opted to hang in. We are not sure why DA personnel seem to think part of the job description includes stalling the public, but we sincerely hope efforts are made to encourage them to use their time more productively.
For all Californians: Please contribute to change by alerting your local news editors and reporters as to the construct of the Elkins Task Force.
The Elkins Task Force has once again refused the public a seat at the table of change. Please inform your elected representatives, as well as radio, television and newspaper editors, the state has yet again refused to address the very issues the public has long demanded.
The Elkins Task Force can only become credible with members of the public involved. That would signal the court is serious about providing relief for family court litigants.
However, should the Elkins Task Force continue their refusal to allow the public a seat at the table; and continue supporting the various non-profits which continue to not work, (such as Kids Turn) please join us in exposing the task force to our elected representatives. After decades of "supervised visitation" and court-favored therapists of dubious quality, enough is enough.
We worked hard to get AB 612 off the table, and appreciate your kind letters of thanks. We also appreciate both parties realizing:
Parental alienation is an action.
Patty Hearst was kidnapped and brain washed into becoming a bank robber.
Elizabeth was kidnapped, and denied she was Elizabeth Smart when rescued.
These are actions.
Whether the person doing the brainwashing has their own mental issues remains a Separate question.
Sometimes a child (in an "intact" family becomes alienated through - gypsies. Read this harrowing 14 year account.
AB 612
We initially worried AB 612 would pass, remembering the California Senator who, after Amber Alerts were first introduced, appeared on NBC Nightly News claiming parents should be exempt. Our worry was the legislators would remain as obtuse about parental alienation, as they initially were about Amber Alerts. But they came through.
Most people understand Parental alienation begins with with one parent isolating a child from the other parent. Sometimes the alienation is judicially facilitated, through "supervised visitation." The isolating parent is then free to input information about the other parent sans filter, and a judicial blessing.
Those unaware how parental alienation works might gain from watching this interview regarding Parental Alienation Awareness Day there is much to learn about this sort of skillful manipulation.
Question: What's the one thing that's changed since this series of federal indictments relating to members of Congress getting kick-backs in Family Court?
Answer: This time a state Judge was indicted. Superior Court Judge Harvey Silberman, and two political consultants are accused of offering an $80,000 bribe to Deputy District Attorney Serena Murillo to back out of the municipal election, according to the indictment unsealed Wednesday.
It seems bribery is one strategy judges might want to reconsider.
Details on past legislation, here:
Details here. The best book on the subject is Children Held Hostage. Parental alienation is an action, not a mental disorder.
And "well respected" professionals such as Stephen Doyne, turn out to be, well, something else entirely.
Again,
Welcome to Family Court.
No one under eleven believes it's working.
But they're wrong. Divorce court works quite well for those in the divorce and custody business. Judges call the tune and the name of the tune is always, "Mo' business."
And, as Judge B. Carlton Terry Jr., from North Carolina proved, he shouldn't be acting coy with male counsel during a trial, via Facebook. (Let them bond elsewhere.)
Litigation abuse continues however, because media doesn't expect judges to conduct themselves as they frequently, do. Or that judges promote litigation.
The dysfunction continues as State Bar organizations spend enormous amounts of time promoting "civility" rather than addressing the fact attorneys routinely violate the "meet and confer" requirement
Non-coverage means family court is ripe for litigant abuse, sometimes by the very attorneys hired to protect their interests.
One example stems from possible legal research overbillings which we have not yet found in family court, but in the corporate arena.
Another problem in family court involves Childrens Protective Service. CPS. CPS remains a nightmare.
Don't take it personally, the state's historic interest in a lack of accountability will remain high because elected officials simply refuse to make children a priority.
There is no worker motivation to do a credible job when state officials offer immunity for those who allow children to be killed.
So the state sponsored killing of children continues. This is not news. Check out the first fifty years in Florida and currently Los Angeles. and Sacramento. Don't take it personally, it's just business. State immunity guarantees nothing will change.
Our thought is if those who aren't lobbying state officials for change, are as much a problem as the State officials.
But back to business of family court; another factor in promoting litigation for the custody industry is, parental alienation, recently brought to the forefront by Tori Spelling, currently alienated from her mother, Candy Spelling. Usually this does happen in family court. See Parental Alienation although currently some are lobbying in California to prevent parental alienation from being used in custody evaluations.
Then comes another problem.
Warning: Is Angelo Lobo asking you for money? Possible Email Scam for Film, "Support? System Down."
FamilyLawCourts.com received an emailed plea for financial support from Angelo Lobo, the Producer/Writer/Director of "Support? System Down" supposedly to enable his film to be shown at an *unnamed* movie festival in Atlanta. Might want to take a pass on that. See Georgia and also New York.
Because this was news to all five Atlanta film festivals we contacted for verification. Also, the film bombed in New York a couple of years ago. Details at the above links. The short version? Angelo Lobo refused to respond to our calls and emails verifying information. So our suggestion is to keep your money, or spend it on a movie worth seeing.
Never mind the weather, gay lawyers don't want to come to San Diego
Who won't benefit from reading this site.
This site is not for those individuals who are progressing nicely through an uncomplicated divorce. This site is not for those who do not have custody issues. If you are such a person, great.
Our concern is men killing their kids when their wives threaten to leave, such as James Harrison did, or; judges continually blaming the mother for Parental alienation (rather than listen to the child) and severing the mother-child relationship.
However, if your divorce is not friendly, please read on to learn what your attorney might have failed to mention, such as:
1. Family Court is known as the "Perjury Palace" for a reason. Unfortunately, most don't realize a family court judge is the most invasive form of government most countries have. Family Court judges are quite willing to micro-manage your life, including when, and where you can live, work and parent, for decades.
2. Parental alienation is in epidemic form. However, although Parental Alienation is well defined Scary non-profits with big grants, such as StopfamilyViolence continue to claim parental alienation doesn't exist. (Yes. While women are getting killed because of parental alienation StopFamilyViolence continues running attack ads claiming it doesn't exist.) Really. Who could make this up?
FamilyLawCourts.com demonstrates the system is not "broken" but working as designed; to serve those employed by and in the system, rather than litigants. Below examples demonstrate this, and how lawmakers provided immunity to those who perform about as well as Wall Sreet CEOs.
Click here for the latest CPS generated, child murder.
(Please click "watch the video" for the part of the report that caused servers to crash.)
3. Thus the reader should now know the business of government is business, not protecting the best interests of the children. And judges make sure business is booming. Sometimes with the help of legislators, who are occasionally indicted. (The reader should not assume indictments ended the problem.)
The short version is: only the Lawyers and therapists win.
Adam Liptak writing for the New York Times nailed it. Liptak reminded us all that Judges will generally rule in such a way not to protect "the best interests of the children," but those who work in the divorce and custody industry.
4. Returning soldiers with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder are demanding equal custody as before they left. An unwitting Congress obliges. (HR 6048) Unfortunately soldier are returning with PTSD and killing their wives and children. Meanwhile the VA orders staff to cut down on a PTSD diagnosis. Contact us for details.
So Family Court isn'tabout the child's best interests?
Hardly ever. "The best interests of the children" is simply a marketing phrase utilized by the public information officer. Otherwise known as the public relations person.
Please bear in mind from a business standpoint, while devastating to the family, misogyny is good for business. This mindset is not limited to America.
The key issue is first recognizing, then dealing with entrenched misogyny in government. From law enforcement to an almost completely paternalistic bench. Many judges view women and children as property. This also applies to the federal bench and an inert Congress as demonstrated by Judge Samuel Kent
And yes, any number of women judges play along to get along. But misogyny in family court is decades old news. Or would be, if reporters covered our nation's busiest court.
One quick example.
What's the matter with Conway, New Hampshire?
First, Conway town official Harold Dickinson who spent decades in the legislature, (how scary is that) crowed "Domestic Violence is a Gimmick."
Crow hung up after telling us "men are abused too, but no one talks about that."
Thus, Harold Dickinson is the best example of entrenched misogyny we know, but we recognize there's others we don't know
Dickinson's comments might easily be dismissed as the cranky snappings of a very old man well past an ability or desire to learn, were it not for two things. Crow Dickinson regularly regularly packs heat (double scary) and his comments were overshadowed by town officials who likewise voted 4-1 not to fund assistance for crime victims.
While we can't pretend to understand Dickinson's crass response to crime victims, more problematic is the entrenched misogyny from the rest of town officials in the face of the criminally assaulted. As a vote of four-to-one against assisting crime victims clearly demonstrates, Conway, New Hampshire, is no place we'd visit. At least not until after the town's people correct the situation.
On the other hand, maybe Crow is cranky because he's a stock holder in the website "Wifebeaters.com which was shut down.
How safe are women and children in South Carolina?
More troubling than South Carolina's murder stats - more troubling than South Carolina legislators considering passing a bill for returning soldiers in custody battles, which does not take into account soldiers with untreated PTSD, more troubling than South Carolina legislators considering passing legislation that puts children at risk: is media reporting on the bill without including a single sentence in opposition or fact in the piece.
The "news" article was reflected a stunning lack of understanding regarding the emotional problems facing returning soldiers; including the VA's reluctance to diagnose or treat.
Missing from what appears to be a patriotic gesture, is how many returning soldiers kill their wives and kids.
(Also missing, studies of how often police officers kill their spouses.
As such, the public as well as the legislators remain not just uninformed but more importantly; misinformed.
Are Texas Legislators Going to Make Divorce More Expensive?
Well they're going to try. At least Texas Rep. Warren Chisum, R-Pampa, is. Click here for the details of HB 480.
West Virginia. Are the private Investigators Behind the Ellem-Schadler measure HB2463?
Private investigators must be behind Ellem-Schadler measure HB2463 But one thing is for sure, this measure will be sure to increase the costs of breaking up, in more ways than one. However, more troubling is legislator's refusal to address the the more obvious judicial problem.
Good News for parents all over. Three cheers for New Jersey's Rep. Chris Smith.
Now if we could only interest state legislators in ending the way Family Court currently operates, scandals surrounding parental alienation, murder and child support might end.
In part from judges refusing to listen to children.
And Judges Believe these "Professionals"
Most interesting about Sacramento Judge Peter O'Brien?
That the local county bar nominated him for "Judge of the Year" after his arrest for cutting down trees.
With examples like the above and below, who could possibly believe the system is one parents should use?
But the selling of children also happens in Family Court.
How to end the problem? Remove Immunity for social services workers and family court services personnel.
The 109th Congress put children at risk
How Badly Does Congress Not Get it?
The 109th Congress passed by voice vote an "exception" to the "best interests of the child?" regarding custody disputes and soldiers. HR 6048, An Exception to the "Best Interests of the Child" means Congress knowingly passed a resolution it knew might be careful to children.
HR 6048 allows returning military personnel involved in custody disputes the same amount of custody time as prior to their deployment. This misguided seemingly patriotic gesture ensures children will be at risk as returning soldiers are returning with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and already killing their children.
(Seldom mentioned is protracted litigation in Family Court birth Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in litigants.)
Parental Alienation: The marketing cog turning the custody industry wheel.
Alec Baldwin is right. Come on down, there's room for everyone.
The industry appreciates parental alienation. Targeted parents arguing parental alienation is not a syndrome miss the point.
The point is what the alienaters do, and that is mirror the actions of those Stockholm Syndrome types, which is to first isolate, then alienate the child or children, from a more emotionally protective parent.
Or, as put by the brilliant, Ashleigh Brilliant;
The cruelest weapon any human being can use against another - is a child's heart.
So parental relationships are shredded, with the parents footing the bill for evaluators, (although no one has done a study of how the evaluations turn out).
What is clear is judges allowing those practicing Parental alienation to shred the family core; and it's in epidemic form in family courts nationally. More examples of Parental alienation.
Best examples?
Surprisingly, the very best examples of at least, temporary parental alienation arise from criminal cases. Such as kidnapping.
Neither kidnap victim Elizabeth Smart and Shawn Hornbeck were not thrilled to be rescued and returned to their parents. They were victims of the Stockholm Syndrome, now called Parental alienation.
The very first thing divorcing couples or couples involved in custody issues should understand is the business of government is always, Business. The "best interests of the child" is a marketing tool. Parents who do not understand this, risk losing their children and their finances. Generally in that order. Of course in these times, parents are staying together, and yet Michael Shirley killed all three of his kids while his wife was at work.
Unfortunately judges continue ruling in such a way to promote the legal industry rather than address concerns of the litigants.
Litigants should also realize some judges adopt a "get even" mindset.
While most judges are too smart to admit bias against a litigant or their counsel while sitting on the bench, and being transcribed; some, such as Palm Beach Judge Jorge Labarga are not that smart. The problem being this attitude won a reward instead of a misconduct charge.
So family court litigants should understand going in, bias and perjury generally rule the day. Perjury is not nor will ever be prosecuted. Thus he who lies first, lies best, and generally wins. If that's not scary enough for you, I should also mention Constitutional rights are checked at the door.
Thus, FamilyLawCourts.com explains why children would be better protected if yellow police tape, warning,
"Crime Scene - - Do Not Enter"
was taped across court room doors of "family" courts
across the nation.
Founded in 2001, FamilyLawCourts.com is a resource for reporters working on family court stories, unaware the system was designed to benefit those employed in the system. FamilyLawCourts.com highlights the judicial behavior of judges acting more like sales reps for various legal and social services for the industry. Unfortunately, most media organizations ignore this, so family court, the busiest court in the nation, the one court used most often and for the longest period of time, operates almost completely unchecked.
The site helps the public to understand why the system works to benefit those employed in the system, instead of the litigants.
However, in longer lasting cases parental alienation appears to be a judicially driven problem. Organizations such as StopFamilyViolence and Protective Parents promote the misconception parental alienation exits *only* as a tool used by men to discredit abuse. This causes much harm to parents of both sexes who are victims of parental alienation everywhere. Which is is to say the victims are partly responsible to educate themselves to the reality how the brainwashing parent uses them in court. This appears to be something the so-called "Protective Parents" Association continues to miss.
What isn't parental alienation.
Parental Alienation is not about "junk science" as in Richard Gardner's day. Alienation is largely about one parent brainwashing, or programming a child against the other parent. Parental alienation includes the use of surrogate programmers, such as teachers, therapists, neighbors, etc. See interview clip, Parental alienation in family court.
When it comes to abuse of power, California's Rep. Gary Miller demonstrated, elected representatives are key. The mother of the children had full legal custody prior to Rep. Miller's interference.
That said, Todd Palin represents a whole 'nother story. dimension. The bold, shadow governor's repeated attempts of manipulation moved beyond the pale. As in repeatedly beyond the pale.
What about the police? Yikes.
Police personnel work hard to protect their own and judges seeking re-election court the police vote. Politics 101.
Unfortunately, anyone who doesn't know there is a lot of domestic violence within police departments is either in a coma, or hasn't attended law enforcement conferences which address this very problem. See, Bad Cops
Or consider San Diego; where District Attorney Bonnie Dumanis' wants to give a cop who killed his wife, little jail time. One might ask, what is Bonnie Dumanis thinking?
and for a little more on Casey Gwinn, see his past.
How family court doesn't work, but remains profitable for all "professionals" is family court's dirty little secret. The Krause example is just one of hundreds of thousands, with judges disregarding the obvious.
And there's nothing prosecutors will do; because perjury isn't prosecuted.
Plus, there's something about Family Court Judges and proceedings which seem to bring out the worst in everyone. Including elected officials. (It's not just Alaskan governors.)
Recent News: South Dakota's Shanae Peterson, mother and step-dad are now in South Dakota and in front of the Judge Jon Erickson, who has been extremely open of his dislike for mom.
As family courts continue to ignore child abuse, more parents continue murdering their children during custody cases. See Murdered kids, listed by state.
Palin Family Court News: From Troopergate to Palingate
A, "Recall Palin" effort begins as Alaskans tire of Palin's Nixonian like stonewalling of the state's investigation of her interference in family court.
Also, consider State sponsored Misogyny.
Where to begin? With Mississippi Gov. Haley Barbour? Barbour Freed convicted wife killer from his life sentence. Yep. Michael David Graham is now walking the streets, a free man. That's taxpayer supported misogyny. And there's more.
More recently: Deputy Who Killed Wife in Font of Son Sentenced San Diego DA Bonnie Dumanis, a law and order type; wanted less time for the deputy. Got rid of the first judge who expressed distaste for a lower sentence.
Family court is seldom a level playing field.
Although family court is the largest court in the nation, media generally doesn't focus efforts there, and so the divorce and custody industry remains for all practical purposes, operating with no oversight.
Also not generally known is the Constitution is checked at the door. Some judges try. But more fall by the wayside of heavy influence.
This site also features the latest and sometime judicially inspired parent-child relationship shredder; parental alienation.
In the two cases below, judges who facilitate parental alienation.
One, Judge James Martin of La Dona County in New Mexico; and because Orange County, California has a history of female judges being reversed; Judge Nancy Pollard....the judge in half of the Real Housewives of Orange County; which demonstrates the almost complete lack of reality in reality television; is featured.
More chilling for the American public however, is that there is now a movement underfoot to remove the voter from the judicial selection process. For reporters who wish to seem a "Summary" please click Here.
Click here for a national sample of kids murdered by their parents, listed alphabetically by state, for roud alphabetically by state, for roughly the same reason.
In California, what the television show The Real Housewives of Orange County doesn't show is - the reality. If the reality TV program caught the reality, one George Peterson would not be considered any kind of 'catch'. However, what the public does not know is the lengths Judge Nancy Pollard took to make viewer reality look real.
Judge Pollard is one strange, vindictive kind of woman, also is often reversed at the Court of Appeal.
Which is why we strongly recommend those who value their children avoid Judge Pollard, and minor's counsel Diane Vargas, at all costs.
Because 'all costs' means all one holds dear.
Pollard's adopted policy of extreme bias seems to have no limit. The Peterson case in point: Judge Pollard refused to allow witnesses to provide evidence of a more realistic appraisal of George Peterson. This is not a woman who has even a remote interest in concern for children.
(This site has also attracted daily visits from Orange County attorney John Rapillo, who bears an uncanny likeness to former attorney, the felonious Ron Lais. Noticing Mr. Rapillo all but lives on the site, we called and asked if we could be of any assistance. Rapillo was quite defensive...again reminding us of the imprisoned Ron Lais.)
Returning to the Peterson case, an the attorney-style Keystone Cops aspect to it, while counsel for father, (and we use 'Father' to mean planting the seed rather than actual parenting), Steven Briggs and Diane Vargas, so-called minors counsel, alternately thunder and whine about gag orders being violated; neither realize they were the ones violating gag orders daily, with the show they put on in the courthouse halls and nearby dining, (we are being charitable) establishments.
Priggish, preening and so completely full of themselves, each leaks enough information to require a mop.
To date other than Pollard's own whacked rulings; the least favorite display of professionalism occurred on January 11, 2008, as Diane Vargas jokingly asked Dr. Adams if his 'final' recommendation was going to be ready about the time the kids finished college. Ka-ching. Vargas knows the score. Her comments revealed what the custody industry is about. A full employment act and a willingness to go along for a paycheck. Certainly Vargas so called 'representation' has been less than nil.
Next was conversation between attorneys describing motions as 'two dogs pissing on each other.' Unfortunately, Dr. Adams found this amusing also.
But our personal favorite occurred when Dr. Adams asked George Peterson,
Would it be indelicate of me to ask about payment before I testify?
The response was immediate. George Peterson, dressed in a well tailored suit, quickly responded he’d mailed the check. No kidding. He said that.
Dr. Adams politely but firmly said he had not received any check. Peterson looked panicked Would the doctor not come across for him? The conversation continued. Offices has been relocated. That was it! Peterson continued to tap dance his way around Adams lack of payment. The dance was inept. Dancing with the Stars will not be calling. So while we suspect Adams eventually got paid, in fact, Peterson seems to do a lot of tap dancing around a lot of money. Some would say to the point of fraud which clearly, Judge Pollard does not seem to mind; although a civil judge in a fraud case might. And to think George Peterson is presented as a 'Catch' on the Real Housewives of Orange County. The reality is starkly different.
Such is real life in Orange County Family Court. But no, we don't expect that to be featured on the "reality" program.
Perhaps it would be best if all family court litigants read, "The Mongol Reply. In Orange County, it reminds us of George Peterson but we're sure every community can insert its own names.
Media remains unaware Family Court . . .such as in the Peterson case, encourages perjury and that custody trials are often a stacked deck,
As Judges Sentence Children to a Lifetime of Risk.
PTSD occurs in adulthood from abuse not addressed by Judges during childhood.
Unfortunately, decades of cases demonstrate the courts order custody to the abuser as the divorce and custody industry is is comprised of judges either generating, or allowing attorneys and others to make divorce and custody a full employment act for attorneys and therapists?
But litigation while good for the economy is terrible for families.
What other problems exist?
Extreme amounts of misogyny.
Sometimes at the hands of female judges.
(Once some women pull up a chair at the big boys table, they will do anything to keep the seat warm.)
What other kind of sexism is involved?
Well, the obvious question 'not' addressed in the article below concerning a divorce attorney, was after having sex with his client, was if there an accompanying fee reduction.
Unless there's documentation of crimes against
children;
custody needs to be split fifty-fifty.
The latest on parental alienation.
Poor Karen Anderson. Although herself a victim of parental alienation, as well as the Court facilitating the behavior of Anderson's ex by not enforcing visitation orders; Anderson plays right into the hands of the brainwashing parent, by calling parental alienation 'junk science' and winds up siding with the parent provoking parental alienation, causing the breakdown of family relationships. Unfortunately, while parental alienation decimates critical parent-child relationships, victims of parental alienation including Anderson, are so confused they wind up in an alliance with the abusive parent and assist in the breakdown of the parent-child relationship. The custody bill regarding this issue is back in the California legislature. A.B. 2587.
Actually, women and children would do well to avoid most female judges, as Judge Pamela Iles well demonstrates. Both Iles and Pollard demonstrate what Embroilment means.
Although some overseas courts are coming out of the dark ages and demonstrating children are important enough that their own voice is heard,
Not so in Orange County. The poor kids negatively impacted in the Peterson custody case presided over by Judge Pollard; owe much of the abuse to Pollard herself. Pollard's bias was evident in her refusal to hear direct evidence from the children, relying instead on their loser attorney, Diane Vargas. As such, Pollard herself is a key player in facilitating parental alienation. Best to exercise a pre-emptory challenge in her court as Pollard was resolute in not addressing why minor's counsel, Diane Vargas, never brought a single motion on behalf of her clients.
Vargus appeared too busy injecting her personal opinion instead of representing the wishes of the kids; including a sixteen year old demanding to be heard.
Actually, it's worse than that. Judge Pollard ordered the custody trial proceed, although Mrs. Peterson's attorney got off the case just prior to trial and new counsel's plea for a delay fell on deaf ears.
Although the bias of Judge Pollard is clear, in allowing the 'trial' to proceed even though there wasn't been an iota of discovery, one can only hope the appeals court will make case law in the area. But more important is the number of orders made by Pollard which are overturned on appeal. A number so large as to inspire a cottage industry in the field.
The conduct of Judge Pollard is especially disheartening for those who want to protect children. Unfortunately Pollard performed back-flips to ensure testimony opposite her bias would not make it to court. As the case involved a sham trial, Pollard's gag order functions nicely to hide her bias from public view. However, one thing is clear. The kids don't matter in her court; and she enforces orders at whim.
Otherwise, why have the kids been repeatedly featured on BRAVO with neither Vargas or Judge Pollard addressing the earlier gag order?
Will Vargas be relieved of counsel since she did not perform? Absolutely not. This gravy train is going to roll until possibly, college. Vargas might generate enough fees to at least dress like a professional. But only if she hires a stylist for help.
Still, Judge Pollard's bias is not just well documented, but is completely off-the-charts from initial orders, not recusing herself, the list is seemingly endless.
Whoever said money talks is half-right. In truth, as Judge Pollard demonstrates; it screams.
How sweet for millionaire George Peterson, who appears considerably less so, on paper. Fictional income and expense declarations might be examined in another court, but in Judge Pollard's court, Peterson has so far, gotten a free ride.
Yes, as Judge Pollard's court well demonstrates, family court is known as the Perjury Palace for good reason.
That said, we hope the original Mrs. Peterson consults a civil attorney for fraud.
More telling: What's the purpose behind Judge Pollard's Gag Order?
Although Judge Pollard is emotionally embroiled in the Peterson case, (and said on-the-record, she was sorry she took it), even the comatose would recognize this as fantasy.
When the words and the actions don't match, the truth is always in the action. Judge Pollard denied a 170.6 motion she recuse herself.
Our hope is Mrs. Peterson files a complaint with the largely useless CJP, for the simple reason any judge with as shockingly long and well documented record of bias against one litigant, deserves an investigation.
Why would Judge Pollard stay on the case? Send us your answer. Our guess television has turned her head. Or, perhaps the original Mrs. Peterson resembles someone Mr. Pollard likes.
One thing is clear. Judge Pollard is Exhibit A when it comes demonstrating how dangerous a family court judge can be.
More news on the domestic violent front>
Another domestic violence "expert witness" Dean Tong, arrested in Tampa, for domestic violence to his wife.
Please support Mrs. Tong, as Dean was also hired by the Darren Mack family and was soon blaming Mrs. Mack for her own murder.
Recent news: Darren Mack-the-Knife, Kneeling On His Dying Wife's Head - a knee jerk reaction in more ways than one.
That the Mack family has millions means Mack post-sentencing, is still able to get another hearing in his case. Of course money talks.
Or, as Family Court litigants are reminded daily -
the mantra of Family Court judges is, "Mo' business."
From the North Dakota's sexist laws which automatically determine
one parent is better than the other, to the Washington Supreme Court
demonstrating they favor our two-tiered, Pay-To-Play system
justice reigns in the case of housewife Brenda L. King from
Snohomish County. Eight amicus curiae briefs were filed mostly
by attorneys in support for indigent representation.
The state Attorney General supported the argument by King's husband, Michael King.
A 1975 state Supreme Court ruling allows indigent parents at risk of
losing their children to foster care the right to counsel.
The Washington Court said the stakes in divorces are not as high, and fundamental constitutional rights are not jeopardized if one parent
cannot afford a lawyer.
In dissent, Justice Barbara Madsen wrote that the "stakes were huge"
for Brenda King who was overwhelmed by the skilled lawyer representing her husband.
The mistake parents make is believing Family Court is not an industry;
and judges are public servants working for the public.
Eventually, and usually after exhausting all financial and
emotional
resources, litigants realize judges function to create work
for those
employed in the divorce and custody industry.
Are the Rules Different for Judges?
Of course. Consider the mother who was pressured to accept less
Child support so her deadbeat ex husband, a judge
could get out of jail.
Turns out, there are no new crimes. Only new people taking
bribes.
But as for the industry, it seems to take a while before unknowing
litigants realize they exist solely as fodder. A fuel source.
Children function as lighter fluid.
And so, those experiencing Divorce Court, the more accurate moniker,
realize judges act more like sales reps for all comers using the
"in the best interest of the child" as the marketing mantra.
The end result is in some cases, judges facilitate parental alienation.
Sometimes judges cause a parent to be killed.
Thus lives are lost and relationships destroyed because people
believed Family Court was supposed to work for all the people.
But Family Court litigants shouldn't take it personally.
It's just business. As Judges make draconian rulings, people break.
Thanksgiving Triple Murder Suicide
as David Brockdorff guns down his estranged wife, Gail
Pumphrey, and their three children, 12-year-old David,
10-year-old Meagan and 6-year-old Brandon in a park parking
lot.
We would likewise appreciate if the ABA ceased jumping into bed
with the Association of Marriage and Family Therapists.
The business of government is business. However, Family Court more
resembles the circus always being in town.
What will make Family Court healthy?
As mentioned earlier, the ABA has caused great harm.
We'll get into that later,
but first, prosecuting perjury or at least sanctioning it would help.
Family court is where people first realize the Constitution which
promises we are free from government interference, is checked
at the door.
As Family Court became a police state, everyday people are now
subjected to massive amounts of governmental interference.
The intrusion of government into one's daily life is just
business. Nothing personal.
But it really is too bad the 6th Amendment was also jettisoned.
Because few realize by filing for divorce or custody, means inviting the
State to run one's life until the children reach the age of
majority.
This defines government invading one's home.
Does this read like the land of the free to you?
Consider how Judges dictating daily life for decades is
Excellent for business.
1. A judge will determine how often, where and when you can parent
your children.
2. A judge will decide if you can breast feed while on medication.
3. Vacations? A judge will decide how long any vacations you take may last.
4. A judge will also decide how long you are going to be away.
5. A judge will let you know where you are permitted to go, and
who may accompany you.
6. Been promoted? Not so fast. If it involves a move, a
judge will
get back to you about possibly taking your children.
(Remember this is an industry. There are firms one can hire
who will advise which school is best for your child. The sly
meaning
behind that is education trumps parenting.
7. Litigate everything. A judge will even decide who gets the dog!
San Diego's Judge Ashworth proved no decision is too small.
The sole issue of one childless, unhappy couple was the dog.
Ever an industry promoter, Judge Ashworth recommended
hiring experts. Ostensibly of course, this was to help
this Stanford
graduate decide custody. Legal fees were over $150,000.00.
(Naturally for this kind of dough Judge Ashworth enjoyed
attorneys slobbering to define him as "a distinguished jurist.")
* Ashworth's now doing "private judging" and brace yourself,
Ashworth even worse at JAMS than he was on the bench.
And one more thing. Ashworth has stated on-the-record he does not
believe in joint custody.
Put another way - What law? Ashworth and many "retired" judges
who think like him have flooded JAMS.
If you're considering private judging, consider the famous line uttered
by Clint Eastwood in Dirty Harry.
"Do you feel lucky today?"
8. Last, no smoking Mom and Dad.
But it's a good thing parents lose points for that.
Ergo, since family court evolved into an extremely intrusive
police state, prosecuting perjury, is really just community policing.
Cheaper too.
As with large police departments police going after the smaller
crimes in an effort to prevent more serious crimes from happening;
perjury prosecution coupled with severe sanctions will actually do
a lot towards ending our dysfunctional family court.
What else?
Our vote goes to the judge who jettisons supervised visitation, and
speaks to all parties, including children.
But isn't appointing an evaluator the first thing a judge does?
Exactly. Remember, the divorce and custody industry is largely an
arbitrary one. We recommend parents demanding to parent
without the stamp of a therapist. Common sense should rule.
Is this likely?
Enough squeaky wheels, enough pointing out the problems with certain individuals, things change.
This New Jersey case could be from anywhere.
What else
Just as supervised visitation should go the way of the cassette tape.
Judges should not delegate to an individual who has taken a couple of
Domestic violence classes and has a clean driving record.
Any bright spots?
Again, litigants should fight for their rights to divorce legal lobby
from the therapists lobby.
Thus litigants should question every pairing of therapist to lawyer.
Orders for court-appointed evaluators might be appealed.
Because when evaluators, therapists and CPS comes into the picture it
may already be too late. The highly regarded Dr. Willam H. Ayers,
being "Exhibit A" as Court officials continue to ignore
repeated complaints.
Thus, CPS and the Courts reveal will remain wholly and determinedly
ignorant to predators working within the system, aided by the judiciary.
After Judge Thomas McGinn Smith slashed Dr. Ayers 1.5 million dollar
bail by a full 80%, more charges were filed against him.
The good doctor told his victims "No one will believe you."
Indeed, when he came to court, he all but sneered.
However, sexual predators working in the system is not new.
Sometimes the crimes aren't against the child, but the entire family.
And the individual doing the damage has a license by the State.
Litigants should fight the lobby of the Association of Marriage and
Family Counselors with the ABA. For Heaven's sake Schools aren't teaching
what these "professionals" offer.
BREAKING NEWS:
NEW JERSEY FILES FIRST PARENTAL ALIENATION SUIT AS SEPARATE TORT.
The ABA released a paper concerning myths about the divorce
and custody industry as it pertains to domestic violence, and
how to counter them.
However, as the above release demonstrates, the ABA remains
almost irresponsibly behind when it comes to parental
alienation.
Parental alienation is akin to the Stockholm Syndrome and
does not need to be blessed by medical community. Parental
alienation is identified by a series of easily identifiable
behaviors as well as the results of those behaviors.
Behaviors judges refuse to address as parental alienation is
the source behind much litigation.
Victims of Parental alienation include children, the
targeted parent and extended family members. Some victims
exhibit the same symptoms and characteristics of those
afflicted with Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (another
diagnosis "experts" spent years denying existed.)
The good news is we expect the ABA will correct their
"findings" within the next two years.
Fortunately, some courts are coming to their senses.
Best case example of egregious conduct ignoring parental right is;
Las Cruces, New Mexico - Judge James T. Martin.
Judge Martin of Dona Ana County in the Third Judicial District of New
Mexico in the case of DM-2007-408, is worth noting as Judge Martin
intends to enter an order granting sole legal and physical custody
of the two small daughters of Veronica Wilcox and Todd
Wiley,
to Kathy Meabon, sister of Todd Wiley, over the strenuous objections of mother, Veronica Wilcox.
Interestingly, Mr. Wiley did not object to losing custody rights.
Also not addressed? The assistant for the attorney represent-
ing Ms. Wilcox went to work for the the attorney representing Mr. Wiley.
Information refused by Judge Martin? The extensive porn collection
belonging to Todd Wiley was repeatedly disregarded by Judge
Martin, as was Wiley moving his daughters out-of-state
prior to the order being executed.
Also disregarded by Judge Martin,
was Veronica Wilcox strenuous objection to losing custody
when she had not been deemed an unfit parent while Mr.
Wiley expressed no remorse over the loss of his parental rights.
This case does provide however, an excellent demonstration
of how the business community gained. Prior to awarding
sole legal and physical custody to Kathy Meabon, Judge Martin,
ordered an evaluation to be performed by one Carol Burks on parents Veronica Wilcox,
Todd Wiley, and Kathy Meabon. Burks report was shocking.
Ms. Burks own report admits conclusive testing could not be
interpreted on two out of the three people involved.
Yet in response, Burks did not request further testing.
Neither did Burks reveal whether she sent testing out for
interpretation or interpreted the results herself.
Curiously, although Ms. Burks agreed to reference the porn
belonging to Todd Wiley in her report, she did not.
Perhaps results were beside the point.
It was noted in the request for the evaluation from Truth or
Consequences Municipal Schools, that speed was necessary as
one of the daughters - is suppose (sic) to be returning to
Ohio with her Aunt at this time. -
Burks report noted Mother, Veronica Wilcox took her
daughters to every medical appointment and school activity
while the father appeared distant. Missing from the report
however, was that Kathy Meabon wanted to return to her home
state of Ohio to additionally care for her dying husband.
Incredibly and with two of the three people not tested, and
the porn not mentioned, Burks recommended the children,
should be awarded to the paternal aunt.
When contacted earlier, Walter Rubel, editor of the Las Cruces
Sun, admitted the Sun did not cover Family Court. (Seemingly Las Cruces has little regard for children.)
As such, questions regarding the appropriateness of
evaluator Burks in a move-away custody ruling based on
incomplete evaluations and a deliberate omissions of facts by Carol Burks, should be addressed by both Judge Martin
and State officials.
Questions regarding why Ms. Wilcox who did not work outside
the home, was not offered vocational training. Questions
regarding why in a move-away case involving children of
tender years, did Judge Martin, not appoint a Guardian Ad Litem for
either daughter or why custody was awarded to the maternal aunt,
have not been addressed.
But most troubling is the continued reluctance of Judge Martin,
to accept evidence of the porn collection of Todd Wiley as
well as Wiley's lack of concern about losing custody.
Because the children are now under the care custody and
control of a woman who only saw them occasionally until late
2006, a woman who is now caring for a dying husband, and
whose psychological tests proved inconclusive, we will
continue to follow this case.
WHAT THE BRITNEY SPEARS CASE TELLS US ABOUT FAMILY COURT.
As the Spears case demonstrates - the reality is Family
Court works just fine for those employed in the divorce
and custody business.
Indeed, in some cases divorce has become a full employment act for attorneys
and therapists, which ultimately ties the parties together instead of helping them move on.
It doesn't help matters when judges allow themselves to decide who gets the dog.
We long for just one brave jurist to rule, "Enough. Work it out between you."
Until Britney, media seldom examined in the litigation friendly zone,
known as "Family Court."
Media has yet to discoverFamily Court remains the single largest unregulated,
under-the-radar, industry in the nation.
Plus, there's no shortage of people willing to make a buck in any way.
The Fictitious Samantha Woods, from South Carolina comes to mind.
Ms. Woods sells her dubious "services" to anyone, although a careful review
of her website reveals it's almost as if Ms. Woods is practicing law
without a license.
The State Bar in her State was advised of her activities; but given what
the State Bar allows from licensed attorneys we don't imagine they'll
take a pro-active approach. The local DA might be interested however.
That said, we do wonder why people would pay Ms. Woods anything.
Particularly since she didn't have insight enough to realize her husband was cheating
on her.
Ms. Woods might have a long career separating people from their money...although we favor using Monopoly money to anyone who refuses to use their real name.
If "family values" are truly our values, how long before media begins
to address the workings of family court as often as the criminal and civil
court?
After all, family court is the busiest court in the nation, so questions
The New Mexico case demonstrates money, not good parenting is the key
to the divorce industry. The New Mexico case is sadly typical of Parents
no longer being declared unfit to lose custody.
Wonder how things changed after a 1992 San Diego Grand Jury authored a their
"Families in Crisis" report referencing social workers who lie,
Here? These same types of individuals work
in CPS in mediation in family court and as this report demonstrates, it's gotten much worse.
Meanwhile, Parental alienation is now fully ingrained in our society,
but as the book "Children Held Hostage" clearly addresses: judges do not
want to be educated in this field and often continue rewarding the parent
responsible for brainwashing the child against the other parent; with custody.
The public would benefit from becoming aware the court system is the
last institution that should be inflicted on a child.
However, since adults are going to continue divorcing, the only sane
solution is to abolish Family Court, in favor of a general, civil court.
All parties would be on equal footing in a regular civil court.
Unfortunately, the court's draconian micro-managing is proving deadly to children and those adults, simply trying to leave a relationship.
In the infamouse Polk murder case, two out of their three sons, and
clearly victims of parental alienation, testified against Susan Polk.
Now comes the bill from the county.
As bizarre as the Polk case was, a lack of coverage of the busiest court
in the nation, the one court most used by the public, most often, and
for the longest period of time...is generally ignored by traditional media.
Yes, we're speaking of Crawford vs. Washington.
Confused? So were we. Of course you need help. It's worse than most
could ever imagine. Kids are the cash cows of the divorce and custody industry,
and the simple family law reality is,
Judges call the tune, those before them dance; and the name of the dance
is, The Money Tree Shake.
We received U.S. marketing material from BrutalDivorceTactics.com.
The material featured among other screechy material, the quote that John Welch
was "a favorite among Family Court Judges." We hope not, although
the film clip was priceless.
However, after reviewing the discipline records of records of Krystal Clemens, and
J. Curtis Cox, we recommend California attorneys opposing them,
along with Welch and Jeffrey L. Hoffer alert the court of their affiliation
with this marketing firm and all it represents.
We recommend the same for Florida member, Stephen T Holman. However, after speaking
to Tony Boggs, assistant to the director of the Legal Services for the
State Bar, we weren't encouraged. Although the Florida State Bar purports
to strive for professionalism, Mr. Boggs cited many reasons opposite their
stated intent, why they did not and would not
do so.
Lastly, we remind readers that in some states if an attorney has been privately
reprimanded, there may be no indication of such on that State's website.
Although BrutalDivorceTactics.com lists these individuals as a "dream team"
their cost and litigation producing tactics read more like a continuing nightmare
for all concerned.
Consider also the recent New York article as people are becoming more aware of the con of Family Court.
More chilling are two quick examples demonstrating the absolute brokenness
of family court. First, Stuart Greenberg, a Seattle child custody evaluator commits suicide after his arrest for video taping women in his office bathroom.
Missing from the story?
The name of the Family Court Judge who ordered the change in custody.
Past News: Alec Baldwin tape is the voice of parental alienation.
Two thoughts concerning the outrageously destructive message actor Alec Baldwin left for his daughter, Ireland, HERE
1. Baldwin's reaction was part of his frustration at the complete alienation of his daughter; and
2. In spite of numerous calls for the media to educate the nation, including judges; a male dominated media, with female journalists too afraid to fight to cover these important stories, continues. Generally, as reported here the mistakes are profound.
Fink is wrong; PAS is "gotten away with" in court routinely.
Judges do not want to know the details, and far too often valuable court
time is wasted arguing over whether parental alienation
is is "real" rather than examining the behaviors of the parent
who is brainwashing the child.
Also incorrect, Lorandos stating, "it was not uncommon for the alienating
parent to falsely accuse the target parent of physical, sexual or
emotional abuse of the child."
What is true is more shocking. Parents who report child abuse,
often lose custody. It's called shooting the messenger; and in family court
the messenger is routinely shot.
Bonnie Russell was the first to suspect, investigate, confirm and publish
parental alienation syndrome creator Richard, Gardner committed suicide.
Russell tipped a Newsday reporter got the facts right, but managed to miss the story.
The story being in cases of child abuse of a physical or sexual nature;
the abusing behavior is seldom examined because the abuser cries
"parental alienation" and investigations all but stop.
However, some government officials are beginning to catch on.
Next up: The many forms of parental alienation.
Though often judicially inspired, in the case of Rudy Guiliani,
he seems to have alienated his own children without judicial assist.
What is Parental Alienation?
Parental alienation, which always claims two victims; the child and
the targeted parent, occurs when one parent effectively brainwashes the
child against the targeted parent.
Does parental alienation only happen in child custody cases?
Usually. However, it's a global problem. This site receives mail from England,
France, New Zealand, all over the world. We've learned also
about the use of "surrogate programmers" who become involved,
albeit unwittingly. The brainwashing parent often cleverly employs the
use school officials to achieve his or her end, often by expressing "concern"
about the conduct of the other parent. Thus, school officials become
"recruited" without knowing they are a part of the process.
I've heard it's judicially triggered.
That's common. Especially in cases of real abuse. A parent making a
legitimate child abuse report is often accused by the abuser of attempting
to alienating the child.
What generally happens is valuable court time is wasted addressing
parental alienation; but seldom the actual abuse. Also, there
are many cases where crimes against children are ignored and the courts award
custody to the abuser.
More on that below, but consider any custody delay goes against the
best interests of the child. Below are two of the Worst cases of parental alienation, ever.
In the Nolan case, the judge managed to inflict, more harm.
Rather than return Dale's surviving son, the judge decided Dale was
"probably" neglecting her healthy son while caring for the now deceased Trevor,
although the judge was responsible in part for his death.
Based on no evidence the judge still refused to return the woman's healthy
son to her. It took another lawsuit, and thirty months, before mother was
able to rescue her surviving son from the clutches of the State of California.
The judge remains on the bench.
Bonnie Russell is pleased to announce a few years after she was the first
to suspect, investigate, confirm and publish parental alienation
syndrome creator Richard, Garnder committed suicide, some government officials
are beginning to catch on.
However, as stated in "Children Held Hostage," the courts remain
adamant in their refusal to become educated to the behaviors of one parent
alienating a child from the other.
Thus, judges refusing to educate themselves all but guarantee
judicially triggered alienation; and of course, high legal and "expert" fees
all around.
How it goes from bad to murder. The Mother of All Parental Alienation Cases.
Why don't the courts deal with parental alienation?
They do. Due to media not covering family court, Families don't realize
this is actually good for business. As stated earlier, the marketing mantra
being "the best interests of the child." Dealing with parental alienation
at the onset would put a severe crimp in the divorce and custody industry
if judges dealt with the offending behaviors.
But they do not. Instead, judges continue churning problems by refusing to
enforce orders, or continually asking for expert opinions, or worse,
appointing Guardian At Litems rather than allowing the children to speak for themselves, thus negating the Sixth Amendment right of confrontation.
In the summer of 2006, California justices signed a resolution
against continued education.
As judges remain determinedly ignorant, the parent reporting abuse continues
to lose custody; setting the stage for the other parent, usually the
more financially capable parent to more easily commit the alienation.
Yet in spite of cases like Natascha Kampusch. Shawn Hornbeck or Elizabeth Smart,
there remains a few people who claim parental alienation is not medically
"defined" and therefore cannot by a "syndrome" or, even exist.
Some states are introducing legislation to require jury trials in
custody cases, as jurors appear to be able to grasp what judges refuse.
Considering the criminal proceeding against Jonea Rogers from Marin County.
Jurors reacted quickly with sadly, a most uncommon verdict.
Because not all judges are created equally, attorneys have long standing
practice of consulting various bar reports on judges in addition to
asking around. Now litigants can also be prepared.
Divorce and custody is about more than loss; although it is that. More often
it's about Control and as demonstrated by
the late Peter Maas involving a custody case after a murder, an illegal adoption, and a war between judges in two states, Family Court is completely out-of-control.
Shawn Hornbeck: Oh no, it's dejua vu Elizabeth Smart and Patty Hearst.
If you don't understand, then you are right: you don't understand.
Parental Alienation To Center Stage.
Just as Elizabeth Smart, who didn't try to run from her kidnappers
when they were away from her for a few days when camping in the San
Diego desert, sometimes it takes years of police work, before
victims are able to leave their abductors. And then they might
feel remorse. Click on the Jaco Report for this St. Louis parental alienation story.
Parental alienation is not only in the U.S. It's international,
of course. It bars no nation, race or creed. It's in government;
as this story of a government agent in the Philippines, demonstrates.
The Naatascha Kampusch kidnap is probably the
best example of parental alienation. Kampuch's kidnap demonstrates the
long term effects to children and parents legally or illegally isolated from each other.
FamilyLawCourts.com looks forward to traditional media to expose the state's
largest, unregulated, completely out-of-control divorce and custody industry.
Indeed, California lobbyists for the Marriage and Family therapists hired
in 2005, introduced legislation mandating six hours of "educational"
counseling in the event of a divorce involving children; or the divorce
may not proceed.
Fortunately the bill died in committee.
BREAKING NEWS: The Internet Scores Again.
Think the California State Bar is on top of things? Might want to rethink that.
Missing from the recent LA Times piece featuring former high ranking Sheriff George Jaramillo doing his prison time in a private jail, is that the California State Bar informs the public Jarmillo is an attorney in good standing. Perhaps they should keep up with the "J" section of Frank O'Pedia.
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Jennifer Gonzales whose three daughters were murdered by their father after Castle Rock Police Department refused to Enforce the restraining order sues the United States. The U.S. Supreme Court decision backing Castle Rock's lack of enforcement which makes life risky for women, can be found Here.
Expect Supervised visitation...the scary part being these monitors are treated like therapists and many only have completed a 40 hour course in domestic violence, and have a clean driving record. Yes folks, that's it.
Returning to the reality of family court: no news flash here; but judges fail to realize protracted litigation drives people crazy.
Yet judges who retire to "private" judging, or posing as authors, continue to their pockets beyond pensions by knocking the courts, and hoping we don't remember they were the engineers of the divorce machine.
Don't Buy This Book.
Too savage for the business world and ignoring that his conduct was a huge part of the problem, Roderic Duncan's greed, after a lifetime of allowing attorneys and therapists to feast on the bones and bank accounts of anyone in his court; now turns book author, in a book about avoiding divorce court, to get his own slice of the PRE-litigant pie.
Or, as Duncan's pr person trilled:
"Judge Blasts Divorce Court in Nolo Book"
BERKELEY, Calif.--(BUSINESS WIRE)--'Whatever you do, try to keep your case out of divorce court' the system stinks,' writes Judge Roderic Duncan in A Judge's Guide to Divorce: Uncommon Advice from the Bench, new from Nolo. "But if your spouse won't cooperate and you must go, here's everything you need to know about surviving the ordeal.
The veteran divorce-court judge reveals court as a clumsy tool for breaking up a family. It's adversarial, intrusive and costly."
Perhaps the funniest line of this press release was:
"When the law and fairness don't jive, the judge must side with the law."
Right. Anyone in "family" court more than thirty seconds can testify the law is seldom used. So Roderic Duncan Now recommends you and your spouse reach your own agreements, after buying his book of course.
In the "Is this guy for real," department: a resounding Yes. Duncan's utterly real, beyond greedy, and he wants your dollars. Don't fall for it. Ask a library to order a copy if you want to read it. However, our emails suggest Duncan was as depraved as those litigants he now disparages. We remember it was Roderic Duncan who went after the people who exposed Judge Michael Dufficy. Could anyone be moretwo-faced?
Now what?
Abolishing Family Court makes sense. Doing so would greatly reduce the clubby atmosphere that's replaced the laws of the land.
We continue to look for the one judge willing to stand up and say,
"Just as no marriage is perfect, neither is any divorce. Unless there's documented evidence of abuse; deal with it. Now pretend you have your children's best interests at heart and go home and deal with it."
What? And end the divorce and custody industry?
So we have to do it ourselves. Please join us in boycotting Cumberland House Publishers, (a house which already issuing and retracting Other misleading statements) which recently inked a book deal with Stephen Baskerville, known for his frothy, anti female bias, especially in a divorce situation. Write for details.
Some cases are high conflict; yet the participants (aka: dead people) have no idea.
Ivy League Professor Ralph Robb charged in Wife's murder. She said she was going to divorce him. Thanks to a lack of even adequate press coverage, many women have no idea their husband's think like Scott Peterson.
It is not the mission of this website to show how biased the media remains, although we do that too.
And that some elected officials believe no child is too poor to Exploit.
The mission of this website is two-fold:
To explain how Congress and family court judges function as litigation producing machines for the benefit of attorneys, evaluators, therapists; (come one, come all); and:
To demonstrate the profits behind "domestic violence."
As such this site also tracks the lengths elected officials will travel to make sure big business profits at the expense of children. In that vein, no one can top former tobacco lobbyist and current Mississippi governor, Haley Barbour.
Look to your neighbors, school administrators and church members all too busy with their concerns, to value yours.
Consider State agencies. Well, only if you have the stomach for it.
Now that we've dispensed with how adults in charge, care about children...
There is a solution when it comes to divorce. With the bulk of history on this site, we hope divorcing couples consider why they would allow the courts to dictate their lives. Instead, parents might opt to function one last time in their chilren's best interest, and work out their differences via stipulation. Visit court once; to ask that the Court execute their Stipulation. This way the Courts would be the last stop instead of the first. By doing this the emotional and financial health remains with the families.
Of course this sane idea is beyond the reach of some.
FamilyLawCourts.com addresses media bias, including failure of press to identify judges presiding over hearings canceling restraining orders, with deadly results.
The most recent example being The San Diego Union Tribune's "report" of the murder of Peggy Chillis. Readers were not educated as to the name of the judge who at least twice dropped the restraining orders requested by the now dead Ms. Chillis. The Union-Tribune might have a policy of protecting the judges, instead of educating the public; including future litigants. We are in the process of determining if any other judge, besides the Honorable Patricia Garcia had a hand in turning down Ms. Chillis' requests and for protection, as did Commissioner Alan B. Clements. That neither recongized Battered Women's Syndrome ultimately lead to her death. Scarier still is that Clements is a former cop.
FamilyLawCourts.com also demonstrates how the courts are geared to use children as an income source for all comers. Usually the individual with the most money wins. This includes when one of the parties dies, and the attorneys sue for interest on a judgment.
And trying to hold judges accountable; with the CJP is a lost cause because of expensive Court Transcripts. Getting them however, is a stall tactic Court reporters use often with a wink from the court.
The national exception being attorney, H. Beatty Chadwick, who appears very committed to keeping all the money.
Anyone believing government is seriously interested in the welfare of children, we need say two words.Mark Foley. But it isn't as if Mark Foley acts (yes, we're keep it real. Meaning the present tense) alone. Mark Foley has a boat load of company, all Elected officials.
So why does anyone believe judges try to resolve cases quickly and in the "best interests of the children? Consider the story of Teresa Lauderdale, a Houston woman who spent nearly 300k (custody 'evaluations') and years in what should have been a simple divorce. Scan the latest brochure from the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts. (complete with the biased phrase, "Maternal gatekeeping" in Section Nine) to truly understand the divorce and custody industry itself, rocked with bias, functions only to Deplete the emotional and economic resources of those uncoupling for the benefit of various "professionals."
All is not lost. It's all about judicial transparency, something not offered by state officials. However, those interested in educating others can Pay it forward.Those interested in getting the lay of the land judicially speaking, can purchase the reports of others. to decide how, or what to do about a particular jurist.
Returning to the process of parental alienation litigation remains a potent gold mine.
Although reporting abuse only to lose custody, sounds crazy; it's crazy like a fox as judges continue to refuse to be educated in general, (California judges passed resolutions against mandatory judicial continuing education) and specifically in the area of parental alienation. This determined ignorance; while ordering evaluations in sales rep fashion, is the spark to soaring litigation costs.
Because loss endures, people continually return to court to replace loss. In so doing and distracted by their loss, family court litigants don't notice neither the greed factor, or that Family Court is an unregulated, unmonitored, institutional industry.
FamilyLawCourts.com examines media bias. It educates the reader to the lack of investigative work by media and the Commission on Judicial Performance in the area the one court people visit most.
No investigations or media attention results in the courts micro-managing the lives and bank accounts of millions. This can continue until their children reach the age of majority.
And the brightest spot for those in the divorce and custody industry is parental alienation. Alienation remains the favored tactic of attorneys for its ability to greatly expand legal fees; and those who expend enormous amounts of time claiming parental alienation is not a syndrome. To that end, judges are happily distracted from examining the behaviors of a person brainwashing a child, which if examined; resemble those in kidnap situations.
"Children Held Hostage" addresses judges being uneducated in the area of parental alienation; and more importantly, confirms judges have no desire to learn. This is not bias. True to form, California judges recently passed a resolution stating they oppose continuing education in general.
As family court has no "beat reporter" the general public remains unaware family court is completely about: business. The business of continued litigation at the expense of all involved for the benefit of attorneys and anyone involved in the divorce and custody industry.
One headline writer missed the point entirely with:"Family Court On Trial." The problem being Family Court is never on trial.
Traditional fails to inform Family Court is run much like Halliburton. The result of scant media attention and no real accountability is Judges churn the industry by awarding no-bid contracts for legal fees, supervised visitation, evaluators and therapists.
As traditional media continues ignoring the one court people most visit; divorcing couples turn to crime. White collar or deadly, there's nothing quite like Blowing up the family home. to make a point.
Traditional media standards dictate that blowing up the family home typically results in three days of steady coverage without one examining underlying factors prior to the story slipping from the pages. (Especially since the suspect husband/bomber died a couple days later.)
People turned to the internet after traditional media fails.
Family Court: A Perjury Palace.
One simple fact remains. The divorce and custody industry will unravel and end, *if* judges recommended prosecution for perjury. However, as the business of government is business, and perjury prosecutions will curtail the divorce industry, it won't happen without the public demanding it.
What does traditional media miss?
Two key elements. First, the profit factor involved for those employed in the divorce and custody industry. Harder to prove but worth an investigation is second; undue influence. In the country's latest family-to-criminal-court family murder and judicial shooting; traditional media hasn't yet questioned Darren Mack's three meetings with the District Attorney about the way his divorce was being handled as out of the ordinary.
What about investigating judges?
Judicial robes are the theatrical attire used to enhance the illusion of judicial impartiality. In spite of volumes of evidence indicating otherwise, traditional media is not in any hurry to kill the myth of impartiality.
And yet evidence continues to mount. Especially in relationships. see South Dakota's Amendment E.
Crabtree preyed on kids physically and emotionally. As bad as he was and that is, traditional media ignores judges using children daily, as marketing tools for attorneys, therapists, evaluation monitors and paid supervised visitation monitors, (although volunteer services are allowed by law).
Murder Suspect, Darren Mack in custody.
(Note the media demonstrating one's worth in the headline. Although Mack's wife was murdered, the media concern was mostly with Mack being a suspect in the shooting a judge).
Although providing national examples,
Attorney indicted in divorce case. . . .when it comes to high profile cases, the media generally accidentally demonstrates how power (worth) shakes out.
Media bias began in Reno's Charla Mack murder, almost immediately.
Grant Stitt, Chairman of University of Nevada, Reno Criminal Justice Department, was quoted in the Reno Gazette Journal describing the killing of Mack's wife "as a crime of passion" adding "Weller's shooting seemed premeditated."
It's extremely worrisome when the head of an entire Justice Department in an Educational setting confuses "passion" with the premeditated actions of an individual whose response to losing power over a woman in a divorce situation, is looking to kill her.
We thought confusing "passion" verb; instead of "rage over losing control" was settled in the eighties. Never mind that Stitt who seems not to have been there, was happy to opine he thought Charla Mack's murder wasn't premeditated. More worrisome is Stitt and his fifties mindset is heading the Justice Department.
However, careful readers observe traditional media clearly deems which life is more important. As repeatedly evidenced, the judge is considered more important than the now dead Mrs. Mack. Evidence of sloppy reporting appeared moments after the shooting:
ABC: Wasn't Mrs. Mack killed First?
Having read blogs on him we are not surprised. We would only be surprised if it turns out the shooter is female or a a kid.
And of course, no surprises as the Suspect's wife found murdered. But lets be clear where the priorities lie. The judge is alive. Charla Mack is not. Darren Mack's financial threats during their divorce wasn't merely standard hardball tactics. It was routine. Three meetings with the DA proved he lost his patience waiting for the fix to be in.
"You either accept what I'm offering or I'll drive us into bankruptcy." When the by now standard bankruptcy tactic didn't work, Mack could have gone for the been less expensive, parental alienation card. Judges respond more favorably to that. However, this being family court; traditional media hasn't made the connection between a pre-murder bankruptcy filing; and a post-murder hiring of an expensive legal team.
More media bias.
The general lack of understanding can be found in the title of a recent article the Salt Lake Tribune on "parental alienation."
Separate from being the ideal way to run up litigation costs for all concerned, is why don't judges listen to children when doing so would Decrease costs? Not doing so is more than not affording children their voice. It demonstrates Family Court as the full on employment act for attorneys and therapists it is.
Underlying issues.
Need Support or Restraining Orders?
Not a Problem.
Need help Enforcing support or restraining orders?
Big problem. Big, big problem.
Nevada's Charla Mack had spousal and child support orders. She also had trouble collecting. Meanwhile, Mack filed bankruptcy and continued maintaining a playboy millionaire lifestyle. Currently Mack has a Team of lawyers and traditional press has largely forgotten he ever filed bankruptcy.
Why didn't Darren Mack use the parental alienation card?
When all else fails, abusive types with unlimited funds frequently opt for parental alienation because it's cost effective and frequently only an allegation results in a change of custody.
In another area of the watch dog press asleep at the wheel, the public isn't aware of parental alienation as a litigation tactic; or that judges allow valuable court time to be wasted debating whether it's a "Syndrome" (it's not) instead of examining the behaviors of one parent's attempts to brainwash the child against the other.
Utah kidnap victim Elizabeth Smart remains the best example of how easily it is to brainwash a child. Taken barefoot and at knifepoint from her family home; Smart lived for months in a nearby hovel on the mountain behind her parents home. Later, when left alone for two days in a desert campsite outside San Diego, Smart made no effort to escape.
When first rescued, Smart denied it was her.
Smart was alienated during and after a crime. As children of a divorce are unaware they are victims of subtle or outright brainwashing, parental alienation remains an effective litigation tactic.
Bonnie Russell was the first to suspect, investigate, confirm and publish Dr. Richard Gardner, who coined the phrase "Parental Alienation Syndrome" committed suicide. Prior to her investigation the media had merely
republished a statement from Gardner's family that he died in his sleep. Startlingly, Russell discovered Judges throughout the nation awarding custody to abusers, who are usually better equipped financially to hire experts to "shoot the messenger" - generally the parent who initially requested the court protect the child.
Russell has also discovered fake therapists and attorneys, operating freely in San Diego and others Courts; and judges who know (such as San Diego's judges Randa Trapp, and Bill Howatt), but don't care.
As such, and decades after the media ignoring family court, anyone surprised a family law attorney, or a family court judge is shot, is guilty of not paying attention.
But there is good news.
The public is becoming aware judges are as prone to bias as every one else. However, judges have the ability to turn their bias into a deadly outcome. Given the number of women and kids who ask for protection but are killed each year; it was only a matter of time before another nut case father angry over financial matters opted to kill his wife, the mother of his child, and try for the judge too.
San Diego. A local example of out-of-control, family courts.
San Diego Family Court judges such as Randa Trapp and William Howatt best demonstrate why one should not entrust the care of one's family to a family court judge.
Trapp continually orders litigants to Hannah's House, a visitation center whose founder was fined $2,400.00 by the State for practicing therapy without a license, whose business license was once suspended by the Secretary of State - (a fact concealed from judges), and whose facility, a Health & Human Services investigation determined, was filthy And unsafe for children. However, the San Diego facility remains a judicial favorite.
After founder Susan Griffin misrepresented her educational qualifications and couldn't explain how grant money was spent, H&HS made her pay restitution.
Judges stepped in to help.
Parents increasingly found themselves ordered to Hannah's House, as judges stepped in to assist her restitution payments. Likewise, the police refused to prosecute.
As such, while Griffin remains the poster girl for "the worst interests of the child" traditional media is not examining the costs from judges aiding and abetting profits to the industry at the expense of children.
That Judge Trapp was "endorsed" by the entire San Diego bench in a recent election, speaks volumes about "the best interests of the child." It's simply not possible for judges to care any less about children, and more about helping those operating in the industry.
What judge can resist? the urge to rule on the Tiniest of issues?
Children become less parented, but raised by court order as parents with resources, demonstrate their willingness to litigate over any matter. It's fabulous for the industry, which is after all, the point.
Continuing in the area of, "How Stupid Can Things Get?" We offer:
Virginia Senator; Jay O'Brien.
O'Brien is sponsoring a bill to allow judges to include "virtual visitation" ďż˝ e-mail, instant messaging, etc. ďż˝ in child-custody proceedings, stating:
"Suppose there's a divorce with joint custody, but the wife has primary custody because the children live with her," he said. "It's reasonable to think the dad could communicate with his children when he doesn't see them. This gives him the legal authority to do that."
It seems O'Brien is unaware contact between parties is not prohibited, and one needn't legislate for what one already has.
We invite you to call Senator O'Brien, at 804-698-7539, or Email him your thoughts at
Email
To see what other legislation lobbyists are pushing to impact California divorce cases, click Here.
Please continue, as it only gets worse. What parents don't know about Guardian Ad Litems could be harmful to your child.
How many courts or attorneys follow ABA approved guidelines when representing children? (Note: Representing children is Different than representing the "Best interests of the children") in custody issues.
ABA Guidelines
In the Michael Jackson custody case Judge Steven Lachs admitted he did not follow the best interests of the children when he allowed the termination of mother's right to parent. This explains why his order was overturned on February 15, 2006.
It's not that many people believe their attorneys are licensed, although they do, it's that State Bars who know about fakes, circumvent the criminal justice system by Not reporting them to local authorities.Phoenix Fake Update;
Feinstein, who hails from Marin County, undoubtedly remembers Marin County DA Paula Kamena faced a recall after the Marin County Grand Jury voted to investigate Family Court judges for bias, which Kamena stopped. Voters promptly Revolted. Why would Feinstein or the FBI get involved when the long, documented history of Family Court shows judges favoring fakes working in Family Court?
Feinstein did speak out, saying the system failed Paula Oldham, who was imprisoned for attempting to protect her daughter. Although the San Diego case presents no abuse allegations, the issues remain the same - sexist judges - ignoring the standard of the best interests of the child.
(Not addressed is why the father didn't react pragmatically as do any number of mothers when the other parent relocates. They simply get on a plane, find work, establish residence, and then petition government for custody.)
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Returning to family court, newspaper reports have New Yorkers continuing to believe "No Fault" divorce will make their divorces faster and less expensive. Not true. Most don't realize a high percentage of judges are Ex-prosecutors and as ex-prosecutors, look to assign blame and order, more industry services.
This site explains why the divorce and custody industry will remain an exceptionally lucrative field for attorneys, therapists, evaluators and visitation monitors.
The industry is safe until perjury is prosecuted. However, trying to get the police to file reports, is a separate, long term, but lucrative failure.
Unfortunately and for a variety of reasons, media also has a part in the failure of family court.
Family court lessons includes:
Media Ignorance and/or Bias
The public remains unaware media has a role in the public lack of awareness of basic, family court realities. But the good news is readers can alert local reporters who are always looking for local examples of national issues. This site is the reader's opportunity to alert reporters of:
1. The Constitution is checked at the door of Family Court,
2. Local police are a huge part of the problem, and
3. Readers can educate media family court is not a, "he said, she said" but an unregulated, out-of-control industry, including fake lawyers and therapists operating within the industry.
(That's separate from illegal incarcerations, and people winding up dead or injured due to police inaction.)
A complete lack of media awareness was recently made in Fayetteville, North Carolina, in the case of Editor Mike Arnold, who hotly defended a lack of complete coverage concerning the police not investigating claims made by Joyce Steyne before her arrest, although Steyne repeatedly tried to enlist police aid.
Amazingly, Adams defended the paper's coverage during the same period of time the paper was covering the trial of police harassment at the Cumberland County Sheriffs Office; including reporting harassment reached such levels in 1999 and 2000 that an assistant county attorney considered some instances tantamount to assault. Why didn't he connect the dots? We don't know. We only know this is terribly common.
However Adams when began speaking about his own custody case. Suddenly, it all made sense.
Adams is not acting in a vacuum. This same scene is repeatedly daily throughout the county.
The short version is: Report abuse, go to jail. First reported in the Washington Post in a December 26, 2001 article, titled "Turning Victims Into Suspects" this practice has now been documented over a 15 year period in two documentaries), but not in the general media.
Meanwhile, the Family Court industry thrives.
The very First lesson divorcing couples learn is:
1. Judges act as sales reps. Litigants are merely the fuel source for attorneys, therapists, visitation monitors, evaluators, etc. Here's one Example. But wait, there's More. Okay, that's for the parents.
The Second lesson for parents is:
2. This is also true for their children. Sometimes, judicial disregard for children quickly proves deadly.
Need more proof? No problem. Say nobody dies, but your lawyer completely screws up. Well, tough. If the Bar acts at all, it does so at glacial speed. Some district attorneys move fast, while some, in the case of Riverside county, can't be moved at all.
However State Bars in most states, Won't refer cases for prosecution, preferring the more clubby, "lets take care of this internally" to real live criminal charges.
In fact, it's actually worse when fake attorneys are involved. The real crime is The Arizona Bar who kept sending complaints on Gary Karpin to the Attorney General, who did nothing, instead of the Maricopa District Attorney for Thirteen years. Why?
According to Phoenix sources, although officials were aware of Karin as early as 1993, in 1996, no less than Sixteen complaints were filed against the disbarred Vermont attorney, Gary Jay Karpin. which was by all accounts, a complete waste of time.
The question not asked, is why government officials, deliberately and continually fail to protect the public?
On a yearly basis, how many complaints do bar officials receive from the public, and of those, how many are sent to state officials for prosecution? The Answer is: not enough.
In short, when it comes to protecting the public from fake attorneys, doctors and therapists, family court litigants can rely on government officials to protect them every bit as much as government officials did for victims of Hurricane Katrina.
Sometimes one must consider what doesn't receive a focus.
If you're considering the services of a visitation monitor, might want to skip Susan Griffin's "Hannah House" run by her son. For more on their problems with officials, see Ongoing Bias
section of the site, which includes the Secretary of State Suspending her corporation from January to March of 2005.
Hannah's House is just one example of am almost complete lack of oversight in the area of Supervised Visitation. For details see the North County Times article concerning this useless burden the courts place on litigants. Supervised Visitation: little oversight; no accountability.
Recent News: NEW CHARGES FOR HUSBAND CHARGED WITH HIRING A DIVORCE INSPIRED HITMAN. HUSBAND BACK IN JAIL.
BODIES OF CHILDREN MURDERED BY FATHER DURING BITTER CUSTODY FIGHT,
FOUND!
(In an unrelated area, our investigation of suspended attorneys continuing to practice law; we learned Arkansas State Bar officials that Arkansas, much like other state bar organizations, does not refer these individuals to the local DA. This circumvention of the criminal justice system to the detriment of the public is another unexamined area of attorneys knowingly refusing to act in a manner that will protect the public.)
Returning to the topic of custody cases, the general public is becoming increasingly aware, how large child custody problem are, including internationally.
Mom Who Fled to China Gets New Hearing.
FamilyLawCourts.com was the first to suspect, investigate, confirm and publish the suicide of Dr. Richard Gardner, mentioned in the below PBS documentary on Parental alienation. We also have a track record of exposing fake attorneys and therapists. The fake attorneys the fake attorneys have been prosecuted. But in San Diego, the fake therapist paired up with the San Diego Police Department and the Family Justice Center.
That said; FIRST THINGS FIRST. Before Hiring ANY Attorney, contact the State Bar To Make Sure the Attorney Is Licensed. A number of attorneys continue to "practice" while suspended, or disbarred. The Good news is a trend towards prosecuting disbarred or forced-to-resign, former attorneys, shows some signs of life.
The Gary Karpin Hotline number is: 602-372-7777. We encourage Karpin's victims cooperate fully with authorities. It's said Michael Urbano, Karpin's stick-dumb, uncouth, original attorney, recognized that intellectually, he was in far over his head, and is cooperating with officals. More on this case, is available in another portion of the site. (Interestingly, Karpin's son, Gary J. Karpin, Jr., was also jailed on theft charges.) Karpin was originally disbarred in Vermont. Maine officials, we're happy to report, served Karpin in jail to have him disbarred there.
If you've been a client of RON LAIS, try your luck at the Client Security Fund. although they're probably tired of paying LAIS claims, they have done so.
For more background on Lais,(and others, click to the Naming Names section of this site.
Meanwhile, the bad news continues. Judges making intolerable orders spark killings as reporters continue missing the elemental basics. Family court is a wholly unregulated industry, receiving scant media attention.
And if the parent abusing a child is an attorney, such as Mark Barber. judges usually all but perform backflips to protect them from the bench. Next comes alienation.
An alienated child ultimately often bonds with the brainwashing parent, who, after first legally isolating the child, uses a variety of brainwashing tactics, before succeeding in rewriting the child's history. Some children overcome alienation, eventually figuring out no parent professing "love" acts to cut the other parent out of their lives, or physically abuses them. Some children match Symptoms of alienation with their own experience, and put it together. However, most don't large numbers of children can not.
Parental alienation was also a factor in the divorce-to-murder trial of Susan Polk. Polk's husband was a therapist, and knew how to manipulate divorce and custody situations.
REPEAL SENATE BILL 1284 SPONSORED BY SENTATOR BILL MORROW. This ill sponsored bill would made additionally secret, family court proceedings regarding children. Unless this bill is repealed, therapists colluding with attorneys will remain unchecked. For details of how bad things are now, see Secrecy laws struck down as Unconstitutional. Senate bill 1284 makes additional legislation when judges already rule in favor, on a case by case basis, as to the privacy of children. Passage of this bill would causes additional legal fees and roadblocks for parents.
Santa Barbara Man locked up in custody battle.. Meanwhile, out of Keller, Texas; Norma Jean Roberts was arrested for killing her daughter.during a divorce involving custody. Incredibly, she said all this "back and forth" was just too much. Ms. Robert tried to kill herself exactly the way Dr. Richard Gardner committed suicide. Overdosed on pain medication and slit her wrists. Gardner was successful; Mrs. Roberts was not.
Please Email us immediately if you've been one of a victim of Lais.
Kentucky got it right. The Courier-Journal believes Kids are important. The paper believes parents guilty of financially abandoning their kids, are worth publication. See Live, Rude, Deadbeat Parents!
And yet, Kentucky seems to be demonstrating actual Evidence, The Courts Exist to Help Families.
which isn't apparent in other states.
We strive to teach the public Judges are no better or worse than the people whose lives they change. Some Judges are violent.
As of July, 2005, it's gotten worse, with the Ct. Supreme Court granting absolute immunity for Guardian Ad Litems instead of holding them professionally accountable. As most attorneys and justices will not address parental alienation, we urge all parents to appeal any order appointing counsel to their children, Unless they've checked out the attorney's qualifications and expertise in this area.
Kentucky's Courier-Journal publishes the names of Deadbeat Dads. Some mothers are on it, but mostly it's the fathers who don't feel the need to assist in the care and feeding of their children; because they're mad at their Mothers.
Those who believe Family Court is about families, would do well to check out the underhanded tactics of the most powerful man in California, Former Senate Pro Tem, John Burton.
Those contemplating inviting the State into their life for approximately eighteen years, would do well to familiarize themselves with the territory. This site represents years of research. Research which illuminates how the divorce and custody industry really operates, which is for the profit of those in the industry. Judges accept all comers. Consider the site a tutorial of a State generated, minefield.
One of the saddest facts concerning family court is this: Perjury works well, and often. Only rarely, are charges brought.
Well, it's not like this everywhere, is it?
Wrong. It's everywhere.
Our goal wasn't to root out fake attorneys or therapists, (phony, judicial favorite; fake therapists, who graduated from E-Mail University); and dirty politicians. But that's what happened. And yes, we have the documentation.
Yikes. Is there any good news?
The good news is....this site. Consider what might happen if you Didn't know how the State works.
Is that it? An education?
Well, If you think an education is expensive, think how much it'll cost by not knowing how the industry works?
Is there more? Is family court hopeless?
Yes, and, Pretty much. But Family Court is too lucrative to go away any time soon.
Oh no. Do you know any good, ethical attorneys...and is a therapist necessary?
Yes, we know good attorneys. Better still, we know the bad ones, some related to each other. When it comes to therapists, remember: the divorce and custody industry utilizes as many "experts" as possible. As such, we also know truly bad therapists, including some who own commercial buildings and rent space to other therapists...who are not likely to author negative reports about them. We have a database full of interesting documentation.
Great! Will you tell me who the fake, or bad attorneys and therapists are?
That's our job.
Great! Can I write or call you?
No calls please, send us an email. Due to spam we now use a filter. Also, we don't accept mail from "Hotmail" or other accounts. Use your real email, and include your phone number so we can contact you.
Great, thanks. Anything else?
Before you can learn something new; it's necessary to first, UNlearn previous, core beliefs concerning "fairness" and the courts.
By all means familiarize yourself with the contents of this site, so you can begin to understand, children are used by the State, for marketing legal and therapeutic services. There's a lot of commerce behind, "The Best Interests of the children." Eventually, this takes a toll on Parents.
What do you mean?
Lesson One: If you haven't noticed an increase in courthouse shootings, or murder plots such as This.then you have much to learn. The operators of this site believe; absent clear evidence, parenting should be a fifty-fifty job split. But there's too much of a loss of industry income, for that to happen.
Louisana: Former state district Judge Ronald Bodenheimer admitted he conspired with New Orleans restaurant owner Al Copeland to fix Copeland's child custody case. The Times-Picayune reported Copeland allegedly threatened Bodenhiemer by stating that he would have opposition during the next election. Bodenheimer is serving a 46 month federal sentence for his role in the conspiracy among other crimes.
Also, if your spouse is hitting or abusing the kids; Don't report it without you have a Truck load of witnesses; or you're apt to lose custody. It's just that simple.
That said, think you've got a battle? Then consider this custody settlement, as a, M I R A C L E .
�The best interests of the children;� is the mantra used by judges throughout the country. Unfortunately, those new to family court are unaware the reality is starkly different.
"The best interests of the children" is the Key phrase used by judges who act as sales reps for attorneys, therapists, Evaluators and visitation monitors in the recession-proof, boom times in the divorce and custody industry.
If it�s not judges making expensive orders. It�s attorneys delaying settlements to the detriment of their clients. Think not? Read the, �The Long Good-Bye� from the January issue of California Lawyer. The secret is out but the jig isn�t up. . .although it should be.
Sadly, few can put aside their differences, to save their financial and emotional health. So the child becomes the marketing tool used by judges, attorneys, therapists and evaluators.; and that�s what becomes of our most valuable resource. Welcome to Family Court; where the circus is always in town.
SEPARATE ISSUES COLLIDE.
Families dealing with indifferent police and expensive therapists billing out on parental alienation issues.
Parents who do not appreciate how easily the police are manipulated, are likewise suprised to learn how they can Lose all parental rights in 48 Hours,.
As if this isn't bad enough, consider the parents who are unaware that Marriage and Family Therapists Associations employ lobbyists, to gain an even stronger foothold in Family Court. Just like the show "Survivor," any attorney not walking into court with a therapist's report backing up his or her claims; is not doing their job. But the therapists lobby doesn't end there.
California lobbyists were behind Senate Bill 1031 to ensure parents divorcing are Mandated to attend Six hours of "Educational" counseling, during the sixty-day period immediately following the filing of the petition for dissolution of marriage. Senate Bill 1031. KA-ching!
Mercifully this bill died in committee. However, if you oppose madatory, "educational" counseling, drop an email to the good Senator who introduced the bill and share your thoughts. Consider mentioning, you are aware studies show, counseling, Rarely works, unless methods of fighting, change.
THE BILLING CONTINUES.
Unfortunately, CALIFORNIA Officials voted down AB 1307, which mandates Joint Custody, unless Substantial evidence indicates otherwise. FLORIDA, officials likewise torpedoed a sane bill earlier this year, in a bow to the divorce and custody industry lobbyists.
Although print media has a long history of ignoring family court, television takes full advantage of an opportunity, jumping in (during sweeps), via, Dr. Phil., as 48 Hours filmed the New York Judge accepting bribe money for a custody case.
British newspapers recently reported Actress Sharon Stone left her four year old son in the car with the driver, while she had dinner. Stone's ex-husband, Phil Bronstein, who runs the San Francisco Chronicle, filed for sole custody soon after.
Ms. Stone has no idea how much that meal will cost her financially and emotionally. But, don't look to read about the case in the San Francisco Chronicle. His office does not return calls.
And so, as custody wheel begins to turn, parents learn they're financing a giant, completely unregulated industry...with the State micro-managing their lives, for approximately eighteen years.
From this, is parental alienation; and if you don�t know about alienation, it may be too late. (For a Cliff's Notes version, see how San Diego attorney MARK BARBER a past master at alienation tactics.
Recently, The Boston Globe reported judges were going to be videotaped in court. Some are uneasy with this idea, (and given their behavior, they should be). However, Minnesota's been filming judges since 2000. We strongly urge readers to write to their local news media; State Bar and government representatives urging them to install cameras in the family court rooms. It could revolutionize the industry. And, since traditional media largely ignores family court; it's the next, logical step.
For a, Cliff�s Notes version of nightmare, but typical judges, click to, www.SanDiegoJudges.com.
Judicial disregard for the most vulnerable, although Prime in San Diego, our mail reveals, is everywhere.
Few parents initially realize, bad parenting is good for the divorce and custody industry. This in part, explains why:
"Abusers/Batterers who are criminally liable for their violence, nonetheless are awarded sole or joint custody in approximately 70% of challenged custody cases, according to The American Judges Foundation, Domestic Violence and the Courtroom: Understanding the Problem, Knowing the Victim.
They generate larges fees, but exist primarily because judges who don’t want to make decisions, use them as their fallback position, instead of common sense. In worst case scenarios, which are frequent; they use them to batter a litigant. Manhattan Family Court Judge Arlene Goldberg
(One year and thousands of dollars later, Marks has a court order for the girls, and the ex is stalling on support).
Parental alienation generates legal and psychology fees in thousands.
Although the site, is organized by state, judges, police, attorneys; this page provides an overview of the dynamics fueling the industry. The reader will learn they don’t need provide evidence or explain anything; because;
A. Judges are not really interested; and
B. They have already surmised sides are likely to submit, Opposite reports. That’s the point. This frees them up to order still more reports.
In May of 2001, an interim report from The California Judicial Commission revealed judges were making counter-productive, rulings: beginning on Page 152; the report stated:
"1.. Court-appointed attorneys and psychologists were seen by all participants as exacerbating conflicts between the parties rather than helping minimize it. (again...it's about Business).
2.. Almost without exception participants believed there was bias in the system, and cited examples.
3.. In the view of participants, there are tremendous barriers, (i.e. costs of pursuing an adjustment in the court, time involved by the parties, calendar time to get a B
4.. For custodial parents, there was an incentive to limit the time of the non-custodial parent to one or two days a week."
Bias with a Badge
First reported on December 26, 2001 by the Washington Post in an article titled, “Turning Victims Into Suspects” The problem begins when parents turn to the State for help. The short version is: Report abuse - Lose custody.
Again, the reader must understand that often, the parent sounding the alarm,
Loses custody. It’s called shooting the messenger; and parents must realize in a monetary kind of way, how good this practice is for the divorce and custody industry, as a precursor to alienation of the child, which is the largest, fee-producing, unrecognized form of child abuse, today. For more on alienation, click here Parental Alienation .
And, as reported in, "Children Held Hostage" judges are both ill-equipped and uninterested in addressing this, most pervasive, problem. The reader will learn, economically, it’s in the best interest of the system to keep litigants in it. So the reader should learn, the way out is to be as Minimally involved with the State, as possible; absent clear and convincing evidence of abuse. As such, it is the job of the parent to not support the system, but if at all possible; avoid it. The authors of Children held Hostage agree a child that’s been alienated should be ordered by the Judge to meet with the parent for a specified period of time, for a period of time; to undo the alienation.
Generally, a report of abuse means the Judge must act. And act they do, as sales reps. Implementing the first step in the alienation process, judges sentence a parent to, Supervised visitation...and the parents pay for that, on top of child support.
Unfortunately, visitation centers are poorly run, and sometimes, run opposite the best interests of the children.
(After the article appeared, judges said Real Solutions had serious issues. Then they went back to ignoring them. For more on Visitation centers in San Diego, see. .No better demonstration kids are marketing opportunities in San Diego
When health isn’t an issue, support is. Ah, another marketing avenue.
, and finally, Obscene amounts of M-o-n-e-y, most certainly is. Supportkids CEO, Casey Hoffman worked on Bush's, 'transition team' - - but we don't want to single him out, because he practiced law eighteen years, was President of the Massachusetts State Bar Association and a member of the Governor's Child Support Commission...
We like Gary Katz, CEO of Child Support Network, the second largest collection firm specializing in transitioning your money to them, every bit as much as Hoffman.
Remember: O.J. was awarded custody of his children, by a star-struck, woman judge. Need more evidence?
You should also be aware the State Bar is very slow to act, if at all, against incompetent attorneys; or those, such as Ron Lais, who was forced to resign, and refused the State Bar's order to take down a website advertising his skills as "custody consultant," is, as of the second week in July, in criminal trial for the unauthorized practice of law.
But separate from that:
Consider the California judge who ignored medical experts, and chose to rely on non-medical reports of Family Court Services personnel. The result was, Trevor Nolan, age two, was dead in twelve, short days.
Parents should not trust judges to protect their children. The Commission on Judicial Performance,, in it's forty odd year existence, has Never removed a family law judge.
So judges remains on the bench, free to inflict more harm upon the unwitting who come before them.
Your job is to educate yourself. FamilyLawCourts.com provides some tools. Otherwise, the numerous pitfalls we've cited, could happen to You.
For California readers: If you've experienced a shoddy therapist, incompetent Family Court Services personnel, or school counselor, report them. In the case of therapists, report them, by clicking, "Here."
Greg Abel, who resigned As Chief Executive Officer, after heading the Sonoma County court system for much of the past decade fired off a legal broadside at his former employers, accusing all 15 judges of conspiring against him for raising concerns about court operations.
Also named, were his former deputy and the Director of Family Court Services. Although Abel demanded a jury trial, the case was sealed and settled confidentially.
Those speaking English as a First language have an obligation to those speaking English as a second language that, "protective" orders not only do Not protect; but evidence suggests those applying for such an order, increase their risk of sudden, violent death.
And those speaking English as a first language unwittingly risk are financial assets. People who consider themselves reasonably well educated sometimes express confusion when the attorney they've hired to protect their assets, asks them instead, to sign documents which gives the attorney a first come, financial interest in their property.
Currently, family court cases are morphing into the criminal courts, as family court judges, usually former prosecutors, are sentencing parents as if they are already in criminal court.
Former Family law specialist, (God help us), San Diego Family Court Judge, Jeffrey Bostwick, was about to sentence Beth Brown to "no contact" with her thirteen year old daughter for the next five years. Although Beth was no criminal, she was treated as such, for receiving a 'bad' evaluation.
When Beth became upset after hearing Judge Bostwick's intention, Judge Bostwick, unable to bear the result of his about to be announced order, ordered the bailiff to remove her.
Beth and the Bailiff, (a woman), interacted with the result being Beth was beaten by the bailiff, and arrested for felony assault on a "peace" officer. However Beth's injuries were such that she didn't go to jail; she went to the hospital.
The Brown Case, (Vista Court) is just one example of family court cases morphing to criminal courts. (We received a rather moronic email from Julynn Suhs, claiming to be an assistant of his while in private practice. She blathered on to a point we were reminded of one of those legal-Stepford, "my boss can do no wrong" types. These people are seldom bothered by facts. But we saved the email for grins.)
Brown has a Public Defender, having depleted all her resources in Family Court. The PD is Sherry Stone. 760.945-4005. Case number is CN 183253. The case continues although the Public Defender's office has demonstrated little in the way of success or interest, in presenting an adequate defense for mothers or fathers, as these types of cases increase.
This site receives a number of emails from people describing their experiences (in great detail), along with pleas to "band together" to end the corruption as they see it. Often these emails fail to include significant details: their State, County, case number; and names and contact numbers of the attorneys, therapists and judges involved. This is Not helpful.
FamilyLawcourts.com provides a brief tour of Family court. Try to stay out of it. We likewise ask you please don't write us about your awful case.
First; we already know, and second; this is not a volunteer organization. If you need help mediating an issue, we are available to assist you. FamilyLawCourts.com exists is to educate you as to how the system works, while draining your finances and putting your emotional stability at risk. We hope this information will help you to sort out your priorities.
Those divorcing, or about to engage in a custody suit; would be better served, unless they don't care about their children, to work with a trusted, Neutral, third party in an attempt to work out a Settlement Agreement, Before breaking land-speed records, to get to court.
With this information in mind, those who include all relevant information, may write to us at: Email
But it's family to criminal court, because family court judges increasingly rule much like the old prosecutors they were. This means parents are treated as criminals and endure criminal like sentences, ignoring the fact that absent clear evidence of harm to a child, no parent should be deprived of their right to parent.
The short version is: parents are routinely denied their right to parent, including after "graduating" from parenting classes, at "visitation" centers; with uneducated monitors reporting back to the judge the monitors view of the "visit." The whole idea of "visiting" one's child is generally repugnant; but profitable to the industry. As such, judges are quick to order these employment opportunities into the mix.
There's a lot crime against children, and most of it is committed from the bench, but in such a way to promote more litigation, "in the best interest of the child."
Please know Judges generally reward custody to whomever spends the most, so ignoring the emotionally havoc you'll visit upon your children, rock on.
However, if you care for your children and want to keep your financial resources, intact; and believe two parents are better than one; make the courts your Last stop; instead your first.
This site documents legal abuse by the courts in Arizona, California, Georgia, Texas and New York, with a sprinkling in other states.
Please do not write us that the system is broken. First of all, it isn't. It exists to support those personnel IN the system. However, if you have documentation of phony attorneys, attorneys practicing law while suspended, or unlicensed therapists, by all means, let us know, as mainstream media seldom reports this kind of fraud, or abuse by the courts.
The public remains clueless family court mediators are every bit as bad as those in Juvenile Court. Will it change? If the report from the San Diego Grand Jury Report is any indication, no.
The legislators, systematically, continue their long held practice of ignoring the problems, as Senate Pro Tem, John Burton who termed out, without responding to San Diego's, deliberate, studied, twelve year history, of making money off vulnerable kids.
One example of the, "You scratch my back, and I'll scratch yours" category, is local government.
This organization has been protected from prosecution by former San Diego City Attorney, Casey Gwinn. Including, after the corporation was suspended by the State of California for the first three and a half months, in 2005. We're guessing Griffin didn't notify the courts, or parents ordered to use he facility. Griffin meets with parents run through Gwinn's, infamous income-producing, Domestic Violence machine.
Family court means litigation, not resolution.
While most (not all), San Diegans agree Betty Broderick shouldn't have shot her former husband and his new wife, everyone agrees Betty was driven insane by the San Diego Family Court bench.
Aside from the murderous, Betty Broderick, the third example is, surprise;
A second issue facing most women, is Misogyny; which, if you're a female attorney facing Orange County Superior Court Judge, Thomas Thrasher, occurs prior, to birth.
The net result being: Knock over a liquor store and the State will provide an attorney for your defense. However, parents can lose custody of their children in Family Court; with no representation, up until the final hearing.
No regular press coverage means Family Court Judges will continue to fund this completely, unregulated industry, with impunity. Expect family slaughters to continue, some involving the the police.
Click to the "Domestic" portion of the site. Non-profit is a tax term; not a vow of poverty.
The California State Bar made it easier for attorneys to end the attorney-client relationship when the money runs out. It's wasn't time well spent of course, as Judges historically, quickly relieve the poor attorney who isn't getting paid as often as he'd like. See,
Proving yet again Family court judges continue to make orders which cause some parents, to completely, lose it.
While the State maintains their highest goal is to maintain the parental bond between parent and child, offering much in the way of "reunification" programs; Family Court, at the behest of those in the divorce and custody industry; operates, exactly the opposite; with judges encouraging lawyers, therapists, and the latest ka-ching; "Visitation Monitors" to weigh in on a parent's basic Right to parent.
As such, family court judges are "sentencing" much like criminal courts; parents to a life without their children, without a trial or an ability to confront their accuser. The Industry, however, benefits. No wonder some parents flip out.
Parents trusting family law judges will act in the, "best interests of the child," have about as much chance of success as parents who asked church officials to protect their children from predator priests. The crisis in corporate confidence is by no means, limited to corporate America; it includes government. Specifically family court judges, because mirroring the Catholic Church, family court judges routinely sacrifice children to the abuser. When the abuser is an attorney, they do so faster.
We do not know why in many instances, the police refuse to protect, but we know they do refuse. Please click to the, "Bad Cop" or "Domestic" section of the menu provided above and below, or click to the Summary.
Elizabeth Smart brought to the attention of the general pubic, the relative ease adults are able to brainwash children. However parents in custody battles, know not only how often this occurs, but how family courts on some occasion facilitate the process.
We likewise appreciate Mary Katherine Smart, who demonstrated to a nation, a simple truth; only to have it repeatedly discounted by multiple authorities, bent on looking in another direction. Unwittingly, both Elizabeth Smart and Mary Katherine Smart have become a rallying point for parents whose children were brainwashed, by an embittered spouse.
Please refer to "Ongoing Bias" which addresses the problems surrounding surrogate programmers enlisted by the brainwasher, to implement any number of techniques. Schools likewise play a lesser role, but they are included in the brainwashing process, and generally align themselves early on; correctly or not...and stick with their position, no matter what facts are later presented.
Likewise, as a tool of the brainwasher, are programs such as "School Match," which, surprise; for a fee, will assist in locating the best school in move-away cases...putting the focus on schools, instead of parenting. Judges of course, should consider them, just not for long.
That's the pattern and practice of courts.
Attitudes towards mothers in family, and criminal court.
The latest twist? How the State figured out how to profit from misogyny, now that it's no longer secret that custody often goes to the abuser, particularly when the higher wage earner is male, and better able to rent an expert witness. As such, father and State, score a triple:
1) Mothers who protest; LOSE CUSTODY.
but wait, there’s more!
Then they are,
2) Sued for support! (Mothers often appear without counsel as its up to the Discretion of the judge to fund mother's counsel from the father). But wait, there's more!
3) The State then orders mothers reporting violence (who lose their children for placing them in danger), to parenting classes, or domestic violence classes and the State receives federal funds for cleaning up parenting.
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